"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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QUESTION: is this a sh!t test?

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Friends with benefits chick meets ex.
Says she thinks she's super hot, and seems very much into me still.
Asks why I'm not with her (ex) or why I don't give her a second chance.

You guys think that's a sh!t test?
Maybe she was subtlety trying to see where I stand with her?

EDIT.

Sorry just to clarify. It was the FWB chick asking why I'm not with my ex or giving her a second chance. Obviously that's out of the question but this seems like a sh!t test on the FWBs part.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sh1t test? Yes.....

How to pass? Say....."its complicated" and leave it at that. When in doubt use as few words as possible and be vague....dont be the chump spilling his feelings and problems all over women.
 
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There are no "sh!t tests" with women you're not dating/f*cking. Wanna know why? --> Because women you're not f*cking don't matter and therefore.. should NOT be occupying your thoughts AT ALL.

If you want to f*ck any of these women in your life.. then do it. If you can't.. then ignore their existence and meet new women. :up:
 
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TheException said:
How to pass? Say....."its complicated" and leave it at that. When in doubt use as few words as possible and be vague...
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THIS x 1000

women will hate AND love you for it. saying "it's complicated, let's talk about it later" was many times the difference between NC with a hottie, or making her a FWB. and my weenie prefers FWB over NC :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TheException said:
Sh1t test? Yes.....

How to pass? Say....."its complicated" and leave it at that. When in doubt use as few words as possible and be vague....dont be the chump spilling his feelings and problems all over women.
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This (and understanding why it is so) is one of the top10 things to know with women, be it FWB, LTR or your mother/sister.

Extra points: If they keep asking, repeat exactly the same words, same tone: "it's complicated". They ask a third time: repeat exactly the same words. It ends there, I garantee you.
 
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Damn. I wont make this mistake again...

What i ended up saying was...

"well, i like you more.."

Hahaha
 
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ha ha ha ......i would have said because she cant keep up with me thats why............winked and walked away.
 
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tripod23 said:
ha ha ha ......i would have said because she cant keep up with me thats why............winked and walked away.
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Haha. Oh man. I like that one.

Next time
 
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She is really asking why you are sleeping with her.

You can say "Because I think you're hot!"

The question is not about the ex. Do not draw her into your answer, do not compare. This FWB is just asking a question out of insecurity about herself.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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