"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Quiksilver

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Five or six... Keep in mind some of them are just people who've been banned in the past and try to haunt the same house, so to speak.

The rest are trying to scam money and generally create a mess.

On occasion we have a vote about a controversial member, but it usually doesn't come to that(pms, warnings, etc.).

You might be next! ;)
 

Desdinova

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Yeah, about that many. Then, we have the occasional troll or spammer attack where about 10 accounts get banned on one day (remember the whole KKK flood?).

Then the moderators act like janitors, cleaning what the sick kid puked up in the hallway. :)
 

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Sounds about right.

Like Quiksilver said a few posters with severe mental problems will keep coming back after being banned multiple times for trolling. Instead of coming here they should seek professional help.

Then you have the spammers selling electronics, seduction tips, stock tips...ect.

Lastly you have the long term poster who goes crazy and gets banned. I've seen that happen a few times.

A few posters even asked to be banned so that they could stop using the site. Go figure.

I wish though that we didn't have to ban anyone.
 

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I've been banned twice for acting like an immature fvcking idiot. It can sometimes be a good kick in the nuts and a stern reminder to shape up or walk the plank.

It took my banning to realize what this place means to me and other brothers. Some guys just like to put thier ego out in front until they trip over thier own feet from not looking.

I don't envy the bullsh!t you guys put up with.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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realizing that couple of posters are actually the same person, even though you hated one, and liked the other....makes you really think about this internet thing and who your actually listening to.
 

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This ban is a classic:

in the thread New Banning Record.

SoSuave.com said:
ericgtr made his first post at 10:59 am and was banned at 11:00 am. :p
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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MacAvoy said:
Out of curiousity, what did PRL ever do to get banned and why does LMS have a unban PRL in his sig?
:crackup:

Sorry... Have you noticed any interesting similarities between the two?
 

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lol its been so long since I've seen PRL that all I remembered about him was the he was very vocal, loud & obnoxious, so can I see a similarity, hmmmm
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheVirtualMind

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Quiksilver said:
This ban is a classic:

in the thread New Banning Record.
We've had some quick ones. One guy was banned as soon as he signed up...Go figure.

Here is a good question for you guys (Mods excluded): Name the only moderator to ever be banned.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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TheVirtualMind said:
We've had some quick ones. One guy was banned as soon as he signed up...Go figure.

Here is a good question for you guys (Mods excluded): Name the only moderator to ever be banned.
NSS..i win!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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