Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
Just curious to know...
About how many people are banned a month?
About how many people are banned a month?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Quiksilver
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Five or six... Keep in mind some of them are just people who've been banned in the past and try to haunt the same house, so to speak.
The rest are trying to scam money and generally create a mess.
On occasion we have a vote about a controversial member, but it usually doesn't come to that(pms, warnings, etc.).
You might be next!
The rest are trying to scam money and generally create a mess.
On occasion we have a vote about a controversial member, but it usually doesn't come to that(pms, warnings, etc.).
You might be next!
Desdinova
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Yeah, about that many. Then, we have the occasional troll or spammer attack where about 10 accounts get banned on one day (remember the whole KKK flood?).
Then the moderators act like janitors, cleaning what the sick kid puked up in the hallway.
Then the moderators act like janitors, cleaning what the sick kid puked up in the hallway.
Sounds about right.
Like Quiksilver said a few posters with severe mental problems will keep coming back after being banned multiple times for trolling. Instead of coming here they should seek professional help.
Then you have the spammers selling electronics, seduction tips, stock tips...ect.
Lastly you have the long term poster who goes crazy and gets banned. I've seen that happen a few times.
A few posters even asked to be banned so that they could stop using the site. Go figure.
I wish though that we didn't have to ban anyone.
Like Quiksilver said a few posters with severe mental problems will keep coming back after being banned multiple times for trolling. Instead of coming here they should seek professional help.
Then you have the spammers selling electronics, seduction tips, stock tips...ect.
Lastly you have the long term poster who goes crazy and gets banned. I've seen that happen a few times.
A few posters even asked to be banned so that they could stop using the site. Go figure.
I wish though that we didn't have to ban anyone.
KarmaSutra
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I've been banned twice for acting like an immature fvcking idiot. It can sometimes be a good kick in the nuts and a stern reminder to shape up or walk the plank.
It took my banning to realize what this place means to me and other brothers. Some guys just like to put thier ego out in front until they trip over thier own feet from not looking.
I don't envy the bullsh!t you guys put up with.
It took my banning to realize what this place means to me and other brothers. Some guys just like to put thier ego out in front until they trip over thier own feet from not looking.
I don't envy the bullsh!t you guys put up with.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
realizing that couple of posters are actually the same person, even though you hated one, and liked the other....makes you really think about this internet thing and who your actually listening to.
Quiksilver
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This ban is a classic:
in the thread New Banning Record.
in the thread New Banning Record.
SoSuave.com said:ericgtr made his first post at 10:59 am and was banned at 11:00 am.
MacAvoy
Banned
Out of curiousity, what did PRL ever do to get banned and why does LMS have a unban PRL in his sig?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
:crackup:MacAvoy said:
Sorry... Have you noticed any interesting similarities between the two?
MacAvoy
Banned
lol its been so long since I've seen PRL that all I remembered about him was the he was very vocal, loud & obnoxious, so can I see a similarity, hmmmm
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
KarmaSutra
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It's a simple equation:
Don Ronny = Senor Fingers
PuertoRicanLover = Last Man Standing
Got it?
Don Ronny = Senor Fingers
PuertoRicanLover = Last Man Standing
Got it?
MacAvoy
Banned
I don't remember Don Ronny.
g g g unit
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Is LMS banned????
TheVirtualMind
Master Don Juan
We've had some quick ones. One guy was banned as soon as he signed up...Go figure.Quiksilver said:
Here is a good question for you guys (Mods excluded): Name the only moderator to ever be banned.
MacAvoy
Banned
The only place LMS is banned is at the wh0rehouse.g g g unit said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
Yeah! I might be next.. I'll be back though
hmmm only mod that was banned??
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hmmm only mod that was banned??
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penkitten
Master Don Juan
NSS..i win!!!TheVirtualMind said:
MacAvoy
Banned
What was his full name pen?
penkitten
Master Don Juan
neanderthal super soldier!MacAvoy said:
:flowers:
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Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
well who was the mod?
i dont know what NSS stands for :O
i dont know what NSS stands for :O
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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