"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Question for potential booty call

Flabbergasped?

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Alright, here's the situation.

There's this chick from my high school, HB7 I guess. We're in college now. Summer vacation's almost over.

I see her at some get-together by a friend. Everyone drinks a little. She says she's lightweight, and seems to get tipsy very fast. We go smoke hookah. While smoking, I kino. Butter her up real nice. She sits on my lap on the ride back.

We get back to my friend's place, pop in a movie and crash. She cuddles next to me, and after lots of buttering up, my hand is on her crotch and I'm rubbing over her pants. I'm about to put my hand against the flesh (i haven't started yet, but that's my plan) when she takes my hand and puts it away. She doesn't move from me though. I figure she stopped me because I was going to finger her pretty much in front of five people.

So, I figure I'll just take this from the top. I start licking her ears, rubbing her thigh, etc. Out of nowhere, she says it's late and she needs to go home. I remember that her mom is a paranoid psycho, and it is pretty late, so I figure I'll carry on next time.

I send her a txt saying "it was nice to see you, we should hang out, blah blah," and she's like, "yea, i was pretty drunk on saturday, hanging out sounds good."

The issue is, I don't want to actually hang out with her, I just want to bone. I have no car, and I'd rather not get picked up by her because, knowing myself, that would put me in a bad frame. Instead, I want to booty call her.

Given the above, and the fact that buyer's remorse is all over this situation, should I go for the kill, or stalk the prey a little longer (metaphorically speaking)? And if so, what should I say?

I haven't done this kind of thing, especially not with such a time gap. Maybe, "come over to my place to watch a movie, blah blah?"

I'm fairly confident in my ability to close, but how to get her here in the first place?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Adrian

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"yea, i was pretty drunk on saturday, hanging out sounds good."
Yeah sure. :rolleyes:

It's your job to assure her that it's ok and that she isn't a slut.

As far as the ride is concerned. Borrow a ride or ask a friend. Can't help you too much there.
 

Adrian

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And lets not forget that these types of chicks tend to be very flakey and make cheap attempts to screw with your head (Sh1t Tests). She may be interested but feels the need to assure you and herself that she isn't a tramp.
 

Flabbergasped?

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Sorry, I meant her ears, I'll edit that.

I'm sure she'll flake, but I'm also sure that she's a horny biznatch. Her actions at my friend's house speak louder than words.

My dillema is, how do I avoid all the bs (hanging out with her around town) while still getting in her pants? Can it be done, given the type of person she is?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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hang out wherever you have an open room with her, bring alcohol, a dvd, and music. thats all im going to tell you...you'll have to figure out the rest yourself but thats all you need to fvck any girl who is horny.
 

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Yeah bro, you should've isolated her. She sounded like she would've went for it.
 
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