"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Question for DJs who are homeowners
- Thread starter Desdinova
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SecondHalf
Master Don Juan
And yes, you have to be careful, for their IL towards you is influenced by your home.
I won't even boink those ones as they go quite nutty if you don't like them and have to end it. I "user" is a calculating angry bird and they never take rejection very well.
SH
I'm a magnet for women before they see my house. :rockon:Desdinova said:
Seriously, though. I do own my own house in one of the better neighborhoods in my city. I've been seeing women that are older and settled so none of them are still with their parents.
However, once they do see my house they're interest in me is confirmed by knowing that I'm not some bum who can't take care of himself.
Cheers!
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
People tend to think that if there's no written lease, then you can just throw the girl out. The court will do that for you, but you have to pay your money and wait your time.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
especially younger women, who have never lived in a real house by themselves. you get a 22-24 year old chick and you have a nice house, kyou can just see the wheels spinning in their heads.
My theory is that women do that type of stuff in mens houses to try to claim their territory so that other women can see it. I remember one girl "accidentally" left her $5k diamond earrings on my nightstand...
Desdinova
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Actually, I'm more or less referring to the 34 year old. She lived with her parents because she apparently has so much debt that she can't afford to live on her own. She also said she 'can't live alone'.zekko said:
Not sure about the 21 year old yet. We've only been on two dates.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Your perceived value does increase when they know you have a nice home....to those without a home of their own,they would like to share with you...to those who do have their own place,they know you are unlikely to sponge off them.