"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Question for DJs who are homeowners
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SecondHalf
Master Don Juan
And yes, you have to be careful, for their IL towards you is influenced by your home.
I won't even boink those ones as they go quite nutty if you don't like them and have to end it. I "user" is a calculating angry bird and they never take rejection very well.
SH
I'm a magnet for women before they see my house. :rockon:Desdinova said:
Seriously, though. I do own my own house in one of the better neighborhoods in my city. I've been seeing women that are older and settled so none of them are still with their parents.
However, once they do see my house they're interest in me is confirmed by knowing that I'm not some bum who can't take care of himself.
Cheers!
sodbuster
Master Don Juan
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
People tend to think that if there's no written lease, then you can just throw the girl out. The court will do that for you, but you have to pay your money and wait your time.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
especially younger women, who have never lived in a real house by themselves. you get a 22-24 year old chick and you have a nice house, kyou can just see the wheels spinning in their heads.
My theory is that women do that type of stuff in mens houses to try to claim their territory so that other women can see it. I remember one girl "accidentally" left her $5k diamond earrings on my nightstand...
Desdinova
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Actually, I'm more or less referring to the 34 year old. She lived with her parents because she apparently has so much debt that she can't afford to live on her own. She also said she 'can't live alone'.zekko said:
Not sure about the 21 year old yet. We've only been on two dates.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Your perceived value does increase when they know you have a nice home....to those without a home of their own,they would like to share with you...to those who do have their own place,they know you are unlikely to sponge off them.