Butterfly555
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Im in High school and looks seem to really matter where i go to school smh.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Question: Do looks really matter?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
BPH
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Read Gunwitch method. It's in the DJ Tips section under the thread about Delving into the Depths of Sosuave.
HalfAddict
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Matters more in high school than in the real world. But I digress, most people are pretty superficial and you will never get away from it 100%, but honestly "Dress well, look clean, get in shape, etc" is great advice.
Lets get real...they matter a ****ing lot. I mean, how many of you would honestly approach a girl who is ugly?
If trying with a girl from high school, looks probably matter less as you have more time with her, she gets to know you better because she's spent more time to you, but still looks matter a lot.
As it has been said, you can't change some of your facial characteristics, but dress nicely, and also think: how many worked out guys can said to be ugly? The face is just a small part of your body, so you'd better start to get the best out of the rest of your body by hitting the gym!
If trying with a girl from high school, looks probably matter less as you have more time with her, she gets to know you better because she's spent more time to you, but still looks matter a lot.
As it has been said, you can't change some of your facial characteristics, but dress nicely, and also think: how many worked out guys can said to be ugly? The face is just a small part of your body, so you'd better start to get the best out of the rest of your body by hitting the gym!
ilikecharlene
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It's too PC to say they don't matter.
I don't believe they are everything though, but they still are a major part of dating.
I don't believe they are everything though, but they still are a major part of dating.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.