Butterfly555
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Im in High school and looks seem to really matter where i go to school smh.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Question: Do looks really matter?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
BPH
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Read Gunwitch method. It's in the DJ Tips section under the thread about Delving into the Depths of Sosuave.
HalfAddict
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Matters more in high school than in the real world. But I digress, most people are pretty superficial and you will never get away from it 100%, but honestly "Dress well, look clean, get in shape, etc" is great advice.
Lets get real...they matter a ****ing lot. I mean, how many of you would honestly approach a girl who is ugly?
If trying with a girl from high school, looks probably matter less as you have more time with her, she gets to know you better because she's spent more time to you, but still looks matter a lot.
As it has been said, you can't change some of your facial characteristics, but dress nicely, and also think: how many worked out guys can said to be ugly? The face is just a small part of your body, so you'd better start to get the best out of the rest of your body by hitting the gym!
If trying with a girl from high school, looks probably matter less as you have more time with her, she gets to know you better because she's spent more time to you, but still looks matter a lot.
As it has been said, you can't change some of your facial characteristics, but dress nicely, and also think: how many worked out guys can said to be ugly? The face is just a small part of your body, so you'd better start to get the best out of the rest of your body by hitting the gym!
ilikecharlene
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It's too PC to say they don't matter.
I don't believe they are everything though, but they still are a major part of dating.
I don't believe they are everything though, but they still are a major part of dating.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.