Butterfly555
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Im in High school and looks seem to really matter where i go to school smh.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Question: Do looks really matter?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
BPH
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Read Gunwitch method. It's in the DJ Tips section under the thread about Delving into the Depths of Sosuave.
HalfAddict
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Matters more in high school than in the real world. But I digress, most people are pretty superficial and you will never get away from it 100%, but honestly "Dress well, look clean, get in shape, etc" is great advice.
Lets get real...they matter a ****ing lot. I mean, how many of you would honestly approach a girl who is ugly?
If trying with a girl from high school, looks probably matter less as you have more time with her, she gets to know you better because she's spent more time to you, but still looks matter a lot.
As it has been said, you can't change some of your facial characteristics, but dress nicely, and also think: how many worked out guys can said to be ugly? The face is just a small part of your body, so you'd better start to get the best out of the rest of your body by hitting the gym!
If trying with a girl from high school, looks probably matter less as you have more time with her, she gets to know you better because she's spent more time to you, but still looks matter a lot.
As it has been said, you can't change some of your facial characteristics, but dress nicely, and also think: how many worked out guys can said to be ugly? The face is just a small part of your body, so you'd better start to get the best out of the rest of your body by hitting the gym!
ilikecharlene
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It's too PC to say they don't matter.
I don't believe they are everything though, but they still are a major part of dating.
I don't believe they are everything though, but they still are a major part of dating.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.