Butterfly555
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Im in High school and looks seem to really matter where i go to school smh.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Question: Do looks really matter?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
BPH
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Read Gunwitch method. It's in the DJ Tips section under the thread about Delving into the Depths of Sosuave.
HalfAddict
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Matters more in high school than in the real world. But I digress, most people are pretty superficial and you will never get away from it 100%, but honestly "Dress well, look clean, get in shape, etc" is great advice.
Lets get real...they matter a ****ing lot. I mean, how many of you would honestly approach a girl who is ugly?
If trying with a girl from high school, looks probably matter less as you have more time with her, she gets to know you better because she's spent more time to you, but still looks matter a lot.
As it has been said, you can't change some of your facial characteristics, but dress nicely, and also think: how many worked out guys can said to be ugly? The face is just a small part of your body, so you'd better start to get the best out of the rest of your body by hitting the gym!
If trying with a girl from high school, looks probably matter less as you have more time with her, she gets to know you better because she's spent more time to you, but still looks matter a lot.
As it has been said, you can't change some of your facial characteristics, but dress nicely, and also think: how many worked out guys can said to be ugly? The face is just a small part of your body, so you'd better start to get the best out of the rest of your body by hitting the gym!
ilikecharlene
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It's too PC to say they don't matter.
I don't believe they are everything though, but they still are a major part of dating.
I don't believe they are everything though, but they still are a major part of dating.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.