Butterfly555
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Im in High school and looks seem to really matter where i go to school smh.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Question: Do looks really matter?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
BPH
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Read Gunwitch method. It's in the DJ Tips section under the thread about Delving into the Depths of Sosuave.
HalfAddict
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Matters more in high school than in the real world. But I digress, most people are pretty superficial and you will never get away from it 100%, but honestly "Dress well, look clean, get in shape, etc" is great advice.
Lets get real...they matter a ****ing lot. I mean, how many of you would honestly approach a girl who is ugly?
If trying with a girl from high school, looks probably matter less as you have more time with her, she gets to know you better because she's spent more time to you, but still looks matter a lot.
As it has been said, you can't change some of your facial characteristics, but dress nicely, and also think: how many worked out guys can said to be ugly? The face is just a small part of your body, so you'd better start to get the best out of the rest of your body by hitting the gym!
If trying with a girl from high school, looks probably matter less as you have more time with her, she gets to know you better because she's spent more time to you, but still looks matter a lot.
As it has been said, you can't change some of your facial characteristics, but dress nicely, and also think: how many worked out guys can said to be ugly? The face is just a small part of your body, so you'd better start to get the best out of the rest of your body by hitting the gym!
ilikecharlene
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It's too PC to say they don't matter.
I don't believe they are everything though, but they still are a major part of dating.
I don't believe they are everything though, but they still are a major part of dating.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.