"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Question and Answer Time with Kingy

kingy

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Hey guys,

Im stuck inside with stomach flu, suuuuuuucks. Lets do a question and answer thread can be on pickup, confidence, meditation, relationships, strippers, threesomes yada yada :cool:

No being rude as im poorly you fuc*ers!

Ask away and I'm sure I will be able to help :up:

Peace and Love,

Kingy
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The_Game

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Is the theory of the higher the HB the more frequent/potent the negs in regards to her looks? or does it entirely depend on the girl?
 

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The Game: Yes exactly, it depends on how the girl views herself, i've met a lot of 8's who through having abusive relationships or poor parents have low-self esteem and cant deal with negs.

If you are going the routine route then use calibration and its always done playfully. If she looks offended then calibrate with a smile and tell her she is adorable, keep talking to group and remember not to neg her again and just dhv and qualify her.

A lot of time guys will neg because they dont feel that they are enough when often times he will have attraction already and just needs to qualify or lead.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ridingthelightning

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#1. Say a train leaves from Denver, Co. traveling half as fast as a train that leaves from Jacksonville, Fl. What can I get for a pair of red tab jeans on the Russian black market?

#2. Did you know cheese is actually mold?
 

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How do you tell if the girl you're talking to at a bar has always been a girl, and isn't a post-op tranny?
 

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i guess you are being serious and have had a bad experience with a tranny in the past.

theres no easy way mate, look to see if he/she has hips, an adams apple, big hands, is drinking a beer lol

hope that helps
 

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I guess the general sentiment is who the hell are you to answer questions? Works with speer cause hes world renown where as we only know you from trying to sell your PUA stuff that no one has ever heard of...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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have you dated models? have you had long-term relationships? do you have strong innergame when it used to be weak? have you dated strippers? have you had threesomes MFF? have you had a foursome MFFF?

If the answer is no to any of them then maybe I could in some way help in that area.

If the answer is I wouldnt want to then that is fine as well,

I've been around a long-time, as long as most "gurus" and teach infield weekly so i have some knowledge.

This is not a power trip young man, im simply stuck inside with stomach flu and thought it might be fun to try and help.

I'm always and still learning and no better than anyone here, just maybe in one particular area of your game I can help.

p.s. Im from london mate ;)
 

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I say this guy has good information on the game and if he wants to help out then that's his choice, we're not here to fight, we're here to unite! :)

Thanks for the reply kingy
 

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Whats the best way to get out a slump?
like say you going out but your game is still fire but nothing is happening, and so with each mishap you over-anaylze more ad get deeper into that slump.....

girls pick up on this sub-conciusly and can tell when a guy has lack of adudance....

thoughts?
 

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learning anything is the same process, tennis, martial arts, guitar, game. it takes time.

progress usually comes in forms of:-

short burst of progress --> platue ---> short burst of progress ---> platue

dont get discouraged, and enjoy the platue where you are making no progress because realise soon you will make another burst.

some find it helpful to look at photos of past successes or girls in their life.

Whatever you do just stay on the path and keep going out and talking to women, trying new things and you will get it.

If you have been stuck for a while, then get a 1-1 from someone who has had to go thro the same journey and can point out your sticking points to you. It can save a lot of time having a good instructor.

Are you getting f-closes? what is your lay count
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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kingy said:
learning anything is the same process, tennis, martial arts, guitar, game. it takes time.

progress usually comes in forms of:-

short burst of progress --> platue ---> short burst of progress ---> platue

dont get discouraged, and enjoy the platue where you are making no progress because realise soon you will make another burst.

some find it helpful to look at photos of past successes or girls in their life.

Whatever you do just stay on the path and keep going out and talking to women, trying new things and you will get it.

If you have been stuck for a while, then get a 1-1 from someone who has had to go thro the same journey and can point out your sticking points to you. It can save a lot of time having a good instructor.

Are you getting f-closes? what is your lay count

In terms of getting F-closes not lately
my count is over 50 so I'm not a rookie :D just in a slump :down:
 

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solomon: over 70 lays for a 25 year old is very rare.

maybe start to look at what you want, type of quality girl, threesome relationship.

If you are losing your hair or looks then you will get less IOIs so will just need to get used to that and plow more and you'll still get same results.

dont sweat the process just look back at your previous successes to keep you going out thro the barron months.

hope that helps ;)
 

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1. What's the best way to 'get over the hump' and approach someone for the first time?

2. Is it suggested that you try to lower your standards or do you agree that people cant be helped who they are attracted to
 

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My questions:

1. How come I've never went to bed with an ugly woman but woke up with many?

2. This hot girl I know shows up everywhere I go and finally said she wanted to be my sex slave. Do you think she likes me?

3. Who's going to win the Super Bowl? I want to get my bet in ASAP.

Thanks in advance.


Cheers!
 

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TheWayOfAllFlesh: take baby steps first and just ask where the toilet is, do that a few times, then ask if there are any other good clubs around here e.t.c.

even tho steps seem silly, do them, it will change your state and then you will be away.


go for who you are attracted to, u can still talk to everybody tho, non outcome dependance.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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