“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Question and Answer Time with Kingy

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Hey guys,

Im stuck inside with stomach flu, suuuuuuucks. Lets do a question and answer thread can be on pickup, confidence, meditation, relationships, strippers, threesomes yada yada :cool:

No being rude as im poorly you fuc*ers!

Ask away and I'm sure I will be able to help :up:

Peace and Love,

Kingy
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Is the theory of the higher the HB the more frequent/potent the negs in regards to her looks? or does it entirely depend on the girl?
 

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The Game: Yes exactly, it depends on how the girl views herself, i've met a lot of 8's who through having abusive relationships or poor parents have low-self esteem and cant deal with negs.

If you are going the routine route then use calibration and its always done playfully. If she looks offended then calibrate with a smile and tell her she is adorable, keep talking to group and remember not to neg her again and just dhv and qualify her.

A lot of time guys will neg because they dont feel that they are enough when often times he will have attraction already and just needs to qualify or lead.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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#1. Say a train leaves from Denver, Co. traveling half as fast as a train that leaves from Jacksonville, Fl. What can I get for a pair of red tab jeans on the Russian black market?

#2. Did you know cheese is actually mold?
 

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How do you tell if the girl you're talking to at a bar has always been a girl, and isn't a post-op tranny?
 

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i guess you are being serious and have had a bad experience with a tranny in the past.

theres no easy way mate, look to see if he/she has hips, an adams apple, big hands, is drinking a beer lol

hope that helps
 

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I guess the general sentiment is who the hell are you to answer questions? Works with speer cause hes world renown where as we only know you from trying to sell your PUA stuff that no one has ever heard of...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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have you dated models? have you had long-term relationships? do you have strong innergame when it used to be weak? have you dated strippers? have you had threesomes MFF? have you had a foursome MFFF?

If the answer is no to any of them then maybe I could in some way help in that area.

If the answer is I wouldnt want to then that is fine as well,

I've been around a long-time, as long as most "gurus" and teach infield weekly so i have some knowledge.

This is not a power trip young man, im simply stuck inside with stomach flu and thought it might be fun to try and help.

I'm always and still learning and no better than anyone here, just maybe in one particular area of your game I can help.

p.s. Im from london mate ;)
 

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I say this guy has good information on the game and if he wants to help out then that's his choice, we're not here to fight, we're here to unite! :)

Thanks for the reply kingy
 

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Whats the best way to get out a slump?
like say you going out but your game is still fire but nothing is happening, and so with each mishap you over-anaylze more ad get deeper into that slump.....

girls pick up on this sub-conciusly and can tell when a guy has lack of adudance....

thoughts?
 

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learning anything is the same process, tennis, martial arts, guitar, game. it takes time.

progress usually comes in forms of:-

short burst of progress --> platue ---> short burst of progress ---> platue

dont get discouraged, and enjoy the platue where you are making no progress because realise soon you will make another burst.

some find it helpful to look at photos of past successes or girls in their life.

Whatever you do just stay on the path and keep going out and talking to women, trying new things and you will get it.

If you have been stuck for a while, then get a 1-1 from someone who has had to go thro the same journey and can point out your sticking points to you. It can save a lot of time having a good instructor.

Are you getting f-closes? what is your lay count
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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kingy said:
learning anything is the same process, tennis, martial arts, guitar, game. it takes time.

progress usually comes in forms of:-

short burst of progress --> platue ---> short burst of progress ---> platue

dont get discouraged, and enjoy the platue where you are making no progress because realise soon you will make another burst.

some find it helpful to look at photos of past successes or girls in their life.

Whatever you do just stay on the path and keep going out and talking to women, trying new things and you will get it.

If you have been stuck for a while, then get a 1-1 from someone who has had to go thro the same journey and can point out your sticking points to you. It can save a lot of time having a good instructor.

Are you getting f-closes? what is your lay count

In terms of getting F-closes not lately
my count is over 50 so I'm not a rookie :D just in a slump :down:
 

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solomon: over 70 lays for a 25 year old is very rare.

maybe start to look at what you want, type of quality girl, threesome relationship.

If you are losing your hair or looks then you will get less IOIs so will just need to get used to that and plow more and you'll still get same results.

dont sweat the process just look back at your previous successes to keep you going out thro the barron months.

hope that helps ;)
 

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1. What's the best way to 'get over the hump' and approach someone for the first time?

2. Is it suggested that you try to lower your standards or do you agree that people cant be helped who they are attracted to
 

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My questions:

1. How come I've never went to bed with an ugly woman but woke up with many?

2. This hot girl I know shows up everywhere I go and finally said she wanted to be my sex slave. Do you think she likes me?

3. Who's going to win the Super Bowl? I want to get my bet in ASAP.

Thanks in advance.


Cheers!
 

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TheWayOfAllFlesh: take baby steps first and just ask where the toilet is, do that a few times, then ask if there are any other good clubs around here e.t.c.

even tho steps seem silly, do them, it will change your state and then you will be away.


go for who you are attracted to, u can still talk to everybody tho, non outcome dependance.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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