"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Question and Answer Time with Kingy

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Hey guys,

Im stuck inside with stomach flu, suuuuuuucks. Lets do a question and answer thread can be on pickup, confidence, meditation, relationships, strippers, threesomes yada yada :cool:

No being rude as im poorly you fuc*ers!

Ask away and I'm sure I will be able to help :up:

Peace and Love,

Kingy
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is the theory of the higher the HB the more frequent/potent the negs in regards to her looks? or does it entirely depend on the girl?
 

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The Game: Yes exactly, it depends on how the girl views herself, i've met a lot of 8's who through having abusive relationships or poor parents have low-self esteem and cant deal with negs.

If you are going the routine route then use calibration and its always done playfully. If she looks offended then calibrate with a smile and tell her she is adorable, keep talking to group and remember not to neg her again and just dhv and qualify her.

A lot of time guys will neg because they dont feel that they are enough when often times he will have attraction already and just needs to qualify or lead.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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#1. Say a train leaves from Denver, Co. traveling half as fast as a train that leaves from Jacksonville, Fl. What can I get for a pair of red tab jeans on the Russian black market?

#2. Did you know cheese is actually mold?
 

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How do you tell if the girl you're talking to at a bar has always been a girl, and isn't a post-op tranny?
 

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i guess you are being serious and have had a bad experience with a tranny in the past.

theres no easy way mate, look to see if he/she has hips, an adams apple, big hands, is drinking a beer lol

hope that helps
 

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I guess the general sentiment is who the hell are you to answer questions? Works with speer cause hes world renown where as we only know you from trying to sell your PUA stuff that no one has ever heard of...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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have you dated models? have you had long-term relationships? do you have strong innergame when it used to be weak? have you dated strippers? have you had threesomes MFF? have you had a foursome MFFF?

If the answer is no to any of them then maybe I could in some way help in that area.

If the answer is I wouldnt want to then that is fine as well,

I've been around a long-time, as long as most "gurus" and teach infield weekly so i have some knowledge.

This is not a power trip young man, im simply stuck inside with stomach flu and thought it might be fun to try and help.

I'm always and still learning and no better than anyone here, just maybe in one particular area of your game I can help.

p.s. Im from london mate ;)
 

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I say this guy has good information on the game and if he wants to help out then that's his choice, we're not here to fight, we're here to unite! :)

Thanks for the reply kingy
 

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Whats the best way to get out a slump?
like say you going out but your game is still fire but nothing is happening, and so with each mishap you over-anaylze more ad get deeper into that slump.....

girls pick up on this sub-conciusly and can tell when a guy has lack of adudance....

thoughts?
 

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learning anything is the same process, tennis, martial arts, guitar, game. it takes time.

progress usually comes in forms of:-

short burst of progress --> platue ---> short burst of progress ---> platue

dont get discouraged, and enjoy the platue where you are making no progress because realise soon you will make another burst.

some find it helpful to look at photos of past successes or girls in their life.

Whatever you do just stay on the path and keep going out and talking to women, trying new things and you will get it.

If you have been stuck for a while, then get a 1-1 from someone who has had to go thro the same journey and can point out your sticking points to you. It can save a lot of time having a good instructor.

Are you getting f-closes? what is your lay count
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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kingy said:
learning anything is the same process, tennis, martial arts, guitar, game. it takes time.

progress usually comes in forms of:-

short burst of progress --> platue ---> short burst of progress ---> platue

dont get discouraged, and enjoy the platue where you are making no progress because realise soon you will make another burst.

some find it helpful to look at photos of past successes or girls in their life.

Whatever you do just stay on the path and keep going out and talking to women, trying new things and you will get it.

If you have been stuck for a while, then get a 1-1 from someone who has had to go thro the same journey and can point out your sticking points to you. It can save a lot of time having a good instructor.

Are you getting f-closes? what is your lay count

In terms of getting F-closes not lately
my count is over 50 so I'm not a rookie :D just in a slump :down:
 

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solomon: over 70 lays for a 25 year old is very rare.

maybe start to look at what you want, type of quality girl, threesome relationship.

If you are losing your hair or looks then you will get less IOIs so will just need to get used to that and plow more and you'll still get same results.

dont sweat the process just look back at your previous successes to keep you going out thro the barron months.

hope that helps ;)
 

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1. What's the best way to 'get over the hump' and approach someone for the first time?

2. Is it suggested that you try to lower your standards or do you agree that people cant be helped who they are attracted to
 

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My questions:

1. How come I've never went to bed with an ugly woman but woke up with many?

2. This hot girl I know shows up everywhere I go and finally said she wanted to be my sex slave. Do you think she likes me?

3. Who's going to win the Super Bowl? I want to get my bet in ASAP.

Thanks in advance.


Cheers!
 

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TheWayOfAllFlesh: take baby steps first and just ask where the toilet is, do that a few times, then ask if there are any other good clubs around here e.t.c.

even tho steps seem silly, do them, it will change your state and then you will be away.


go for who you are attracted to, u can still talk to everybody tho, non outcome dependance.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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