"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Question about this girl who 99.9% of the time "acts" mad at me.

FutureDJMaster

New Member
Joined
Aug 27, 2010
Messages
8
Reaction score
0
So yeah I know this girl who frequently comes to the place I work. I've known I would say a litle over a year. Up until maybe a month ago we were cool. Everytime I see her now she has an attitude with ME and only me she acts normal around everybody else, and to my knowledge I've done nothing to piss her off. I figured she was into me (I wouldnt want anything other than a fxck buddy outta this girl) and was just trying to get my attention but I wanted an opinion from somebody more experienced. What should I do in this situation?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Naughty Ninja

Banned
Joined
Apr 9, 2010
Messages
2,419
Reaction score
98
Location
Banned
FutureDJMaster said:
So yeah I know this girl who frequently comes to the place I work. I've known I would say a litle over a year. Up until maybe a month ago we were cool. Everytime I see her now she has an attitude with ME and only me she acts normal around everybody else, and to my knowledge I've done nothing to piss her off. I figured she was into me (I wouldnt want anything other than a fxck buddy outta this girl) and was just trying to get my attention but I wanted an opinion from somebody more experienced. What should I do in this situation?

Your employment at Chuck E Cheese could soon be terminated if her parents decide to press charges. You may want to try your luck with someone a little older and more mature. Perhaps BB Bardot? She's listed as 17 and hails from Paris France. Thank heaven for little girls.
 

OnTheWayUp

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 13, 2010
Messages
321
Reaction score
9
There are a few girls I've dated who flirt in this kinda "permanently angry" way. Don't know whether the girl you're talking about is Spanish?- I've met a couple of Spanish chicks who talk with guys they like that way. Very strange. If you're into her/ her way of chatting you up, isolate and escalate. :)
 

Julius_Seizeher

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 25, 2009
Messages
1,233
Reaction score
76
Location
Midwest
I've seen this movie before. Many girls will be confrontational with someone they have a crush on.

They'll chalk it up to "not wanting to get hurt" or some other good-sounding but nonsensical bs.

She may like you, or she may just be a cvnt, but I just wash my hands of these dysfunctional types regardless. Say, "You're damaged goods, lady."
 
Top