"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Question about this girl who 99.9% of the time "acts" mad at me.

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So yeah I know this girl who frequently comes to the place I work. I've known I would say a litle over a year. Up until maybe a month ago we were cool. Everytime I see her now she has an attitude with ME and only me she acts normal around everybody else, and to my knowledge I've done nothing to piss her off. I figured she was into me (I wouldnt want anything other than a fxck buddy outta this girl) and was just trying to get my attention but I wanted an opinion from somebody more experienced. What should I do in this situation?
 

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FutureDJMaster said:
So yeah I know this girl who frequently comes to the place I work. I've known I would say a litle over a year. Up until maybe a month ago we were cool. Everytime I see her now she has an attitude with ME and only me she acts normal around everybody else, and to my knowledge I've done nothing to piss her off. I figured she was into me (I wouldnt want anything other than a fxck buddy outta this girl) and was just trying to get my attention but I wanted an opinion from somebody more experienced. What should I do in this situation?

Your employment at Chuck E Cheese could soon be terminated if her parents decide to press charges. You may want to try your luck with someone a little older and more mature. Perhaps BB Bardot? She's listed as 17 and hails from Paris France. Thank heaven for little girls.
 

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There are a few girls I've dated who flirt in this kinda "permanently angry" way. Don't know whether the girl you're talking about is Spanish?- I've met a couple of Spanish chicks who talk with guys they like that way. Very strange. If you're into her/ her way of chatting you up, isolate and escalate. :)
 

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I've seen this movie before. Many girls will be confrontational with someone they have a crush on.

They'll chalk it up to "not wanting to get hurt" or some other good-sounding but nonsensical bs.

She may like you, or she may just be a cvnt, but I just wash my hands of these dysfunctional types regardless. Say, "You're damaged goods, lady."
 
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