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Question about this girl who 99.9% of the time "acts" mad at me.

FutureDJMaster

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So yeah I know this girl who frequently comes to the place I work. I've known I would say a litle over a year. Up until maybe a month ago we were cool. Everytime I see her now she has an attitude with ME and only me she acts normal around everybody else, and to my knowledge I've done nothing to piss her off. I figured she was into me (I wouldnt want anything other than a fxck buddy outta this girl) and was just trying to get my attention but I wanted an opinion from somebody more experienced. What should I do in this situation?
 

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FutureDJMaster said:
So yeah I know this girl who frequently comes to the place I work. I've known I would say a litle over a year. Up until maybe a month ago we were cool. Everytime I see her now she has an attitude with ME and only me she acts normal around everybody else, and to my knowledge I've done nothing to piss her off. I figured she was into me (I wouldnt want anything other than a fxck buddy outta this girl) and was just trying to get my attention but I wanted an opinion from somebody more experienced. What should I do in this situation?

Your employment at Chuck E Cheese could soon be terminated if her parents decide to press charges. You may want to try your luck with someone a little older and more mature. Perhaps BB Bardot? She's listed as 17 and hails from Paris France. Thank heaven for little girls.
 

OnTheWayUp

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There are a few girls I've dated who flirt in this kinda "permanently angry" way. Don't know whether the girl you're talking about is Spanish?- I've met a couple of Spanish chicks who talk with guys they like that way. Very strange. If you're into her/ her way of chatting you up, isolate and escalate. :)
 

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I've seen this movie before. Many girls will be confrontational with someone they have a crush on.

They'll chalk it up to "not wanting to get hurt" or some other good-sounding but nonsensical bs.

She may like you, or she may just be a cvnt, but I just wash my hands of these dysfunctional types regardless. Say, "You're damaged goods, lady."
 
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