OddManOut85
Don Juan
does having the constant feeling of not being happy with yourself or wishing you were just someone else entirely count as a personality disorder?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
question about personality disorders
- Thread starter OddManOut85
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Hitman10000
Master Don Juan
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I've been having this hired hitman fantasy for the longest time.
You see me..wearing a suit...carrying a briefcase, in it..lots of guns to blow your motherf*cking family away.
You see me..wearing a suit...carrying a briefcase, in it..lots of guns to blow your motherf*cking family away.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You just sound like a guy needing purpose.
Wzs99
Don Juan
Not being happy with yourself has nothing to do with personality disorder.
I'm guessing that you are having trouble figuring out what emotions you are having.
Can't blame you. Men are conditioned to repress their emotions. We are not suppose to cry or show any feeling.
The fact that no one in life has ever shown us how to handle your emotions is another factor.
But IMO if your are feeling bad and depressed. FEEL Bad and depressed. Dont repress them. They are there for a very good helpful reason. That reason is for you to learn from.
'What I'm(you) feeling is premature enlightment" - Fight Club
I'm guessing that you are having trouble figuring out what emotions you are having.
Can't blame you. Men are conditioned to repress their emotions. We are not suppose to cry or show any feeling.
The fact that no one in life has ever shown us how to handle your emotions is another factor.
But IMO if your are feeling bad and depressed. FEEL Bad and depressed. Dont repress them. They are there for a very good helpful reason. That reason is for you to learn from.
'What I'm(you) feeling is premature enlightment" - Fight Club
OddManOut85
Don Juan
i dont want to feel bad and depressed.ive felt that way for a long time now.and i want to feel happy.ive learned alot.about myself,some of which i dont like.i feel like ive become something i dont or never wanted to be.this antisocial loner.its like theres two sides to me,the sociable side,and the antisocial side.its odd i know.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.