"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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question about personality disorders

OddManOut85

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does having the constant feeling of not being happy with yourself or wishing you were just someone else entirely count as a personality disorder?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hitman10000

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I've been having this hired hitman fantasy for the longest time.

You see me..wearing a suit...carrying a briefcase, in it..lots of guns to blow your motherf*cking family away.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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You just sound like a guy needing purpose.
 

Wzs99

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Not being happy with yourself has nothing to do with personality disorder.

I'm guessing that you are having trouble figuring out what emotions you are having.

Can't blame you. Men are conditioned to repress their emotions. We are not suppose to cry or show any feeling.

The fact that no one in life has ever shown us how to handle your emotions is another factor.

But IMO if your are feeling bad and depressed. FEEL Bad and depressed. Dont repress them. They are there for a very good helpful reason. That reason is for you to learn from. :)


'What I'm(you) feeling is premature enlightment" - Fight Club
 

OddManOut85

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i dont want to feel bad and depressed.ive felt that way for a long time now.and i want to feel happy.ive learned alot.about myself,some of which i dont like.i feel like ive become something i dont or never wanted to be.this antisocial loner.its like theres two sides to me,the sociable side,and the antisocial side.its odd i know.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bvbidd

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It's not a disorder really, it's just depression.

It can be cured with therapy, perscription drugs, or just trying to get a purposful life,
 
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