OddManOut85
Don Juan
does having the constant feeling of not being happy with yourself or wishing you were just someone else entirely count as a personality disorder?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
question about personality disorders
- Thread starter OddManOut85
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hitman10000
Master Don Juan
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I've been having this hired hitman fantasy for the longest time.
You see me..wearing a suit...carrying a briefcase, in it..lots of guns to blow your motherf*cking family away.
You see me..wearing a suit...carrying a briefcase, in it..lots of guns to blow your motherf*cking family away.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You just sound like a guy needing purpose.
Wzs99
Don Juan
Not being happy with yourself has nothing to do with personality disorder.
I'm guessing that you are having trouble figuring out what emotions you are having.
Can't blame you. Men are conditioned to repress their emotions. We are not suppose to cry or show any feeling.
The fact that no one in life has ever shown us how to handle your emotions is another factor.
But IMO if your are feeling bad and depressed. FEEL Bad and depressed. Dont repress them. They are there for a very good helpful reason. That reason is for you to learn from.
'What I'm(you) feeling is premature enlightment" - Fight Club
I'm guessing that you are having trouble figuring out what emotions you are having.
Can't blame you. Men are conditioned to repress their emotions. We are not suppose to cry or show any feeling.
The fact that no one in life has ever shown us how to handle your emotions is another factor.
But IMO if your are feeling bad and depressed. FEEL Bad and depressed. Dont repress them. They are there for a very good helpful reason. That reason is for you to learn from.
'What I'm(you) feeling is premature enlightment" - Fight Club
OddManOut85
Don Juan
i dont want to feel bad and depressed.ive felt that way for a long time now.and i want to feel happy.ive learned alot.about myself,some of which i dont like.i feel like ive become something i dont or never wanted to be.this antisocial loner.its like theres two sides to me,the sociable side,and the antisocial side.its odd i know.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.