OddManOut85
Don Juan
does having the constant feeling of not being happy with yourself or wishing you were just someone else entirely count as a personality disorder?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
question about personality disorders
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hitman10000
Master Don Juan
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I've been having this hired hitman fantasy for the longest time.
You see me..wearing a suit...carrying a briefcase, in it..lots of guns to blow your motherf*cking family away.
You see me..wearing a suit...carrying a briefcase, in it..lots of guns to blow your motherf*cking family away.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
You just sound like a guy needing purpose.
Wzs99
Don Juan
Not being happy with yourself has nothing to do with personality disorder.
I'm guessing that you are having trouble figuring out what emotions you are having.
Can't blame you. Men are conditioned to repress their emotions. We are not suppose to cry or show any feeling.
The fact that no one in life has ever shown us how to handle your emotions is another factor.
But IMO if your are feeling bad and depressed. FEEL Bad and depressed. Dont repress them. They are there for a very good helpful reason. That reason is for you to learn from.
'What I'm(you) feeling is premature enlightment" - Fight Club
I'm guessing that you are having trouble figuring out what emotions you are having.
Can't blame you. Men are conditioned to repress their emotions. We are not suppose to cry or show any feeling.
The fact that no one in life has ever shown us how to handle your emotions is another factor.
But IMO if your are feeling bad and depressed. FEEL Bad and depressed. Dont repress them. They are there for a very good helpful reason. That reason is for you to learn from.
'What I'm(you) feeling is premature enlightment" - Fight Club
OddManOut85
Don Juan
i dont want to feel bad and depressed.ive felt that way for a long time now.and i want to feel happy.ive learned alot.about myself,some of which i dont like.i feel like ive become something i dont or never wanted to be.this antisocial loner.its like theres two sides to me,the sociable side,and the antisocial side.its odd i know.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.