"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Question about getting head

Supremo

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So my girlfriend just recently gave me head for the first time...
It felt pretty good but I didn't even come close to finishing.

Other experiences with *******s all happened while I was drunk, so I don't remember much.

Next time I want to be able to tell my girlfriend what to do, but I'm not sure what to say because I don't know what advice to give. Eg. suck harder, use more tongue, slow down, etc. I have no idea.

Holla back
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Go a few days without whacking, and tell her to keep doing whatever feels good for you. Don't be afraid to talk dirty either, she'll get turned on and you'll get a lot more than head.
 

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Supremo said:
. suck harder, use more tongue, slow down, etc.
How about all of the above.

Tell her exectly how you want it and give her directions when you want her to change pace or do something else. You can even tell her to use her hand on the shaft while she blows, and it never hurts for her to rub your nuts from time to time.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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DJDamage said:
How about all of the above.

Tell her exectly how you want it and give her directions when you want her to change pace or do something else. You can even tell her to use her hand on the shaft while she blows, and it never hurts for her to rub your nuts from time to time.
Yup Yup. You can tell her how to do whatever you like.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Supremo said:
So my girlfriend just recently gave me head for the first time...
It felt pretty good but I didn't even come close to finishing.

Other experiences with *******s all happened while I was drunk, so I don't remember much.

Next time I want to be able to tell my girlfriend what to do, but I'm not sure what to say because I don't know what advice to give. Eg. suck harder, use more tongue, slow down, etc. I have no idea.

Holla back
Exactly what I was thinking... dont masturbate for a while she'll get you, period.
 

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The guys here a right on when they talk about not masterbating. Just wanted to add that you shouldn't be afraid to guide her a bit, and find what you like. Just tell her what you want her to try. No one has minded for me, it's the whole dominance thing lol. My first time I didn't finish for ages.
 
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