"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Question about getting head

Supremo

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So my girlfriend just recently gave me head for the first time...
It felt pretty good but I didn't even come close to finishing.

Other experiences with *******s all happened while I was drunk, so I don't remember much.

Next time I want to be able to tell my girlfriend what to do, but I'm not sure what to say because I don't know what advice to give. Eg. suck harder, use more tongue, slow down, etc. I have no idea.

Holla back
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Eccentric

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Go a few days without whacking, and tell her to keep doing whatever feels good for you. Don't be afraid to talk dirty either, she'll get turned on and you'll get a lot more than head.
 

DJDamage

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Supremo said:
. suck harder, use more tongue, slow down, etc.
How about all of the above.

Tell her exectly how you want it and give her directions when you want her to change pace or do something else. You can even tell her to use her hand on the shaft while she blows, and it never hurts for her to rub your nuts from time to time.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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DJDamage said:
How about all of the above.

Tell her exectly how you want it and give her directions when you want her to change pace or do something else. You can even tell her to use her hand on the shaft while she blows, and it never hurts for her to rub your nuts from time to time.
Yup Yup. You can tell her how to do whatever you like.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Supremo said:
So my girlfriend just recently gave me head for the first time...
It felt pretty good but I didn't even come close to finishing.

Other experiences with *******s all happened while I was drunk, so I don't remember much.

Next time I want to be able to tell my girlfriend what to do, but I'm not sure what to say because I don't know what advice to give. Eg. suck harder, use more tongue, slow down, etc. I have no idea.

Holla back
Exactly what I was thinking... dont masturbate for a while she'll get you, period.
 

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The guys here a right on when they talk about not masterbating. Just wanted to add that you shouldn't be afraid to guide her a bit, and find what you like. Just tell her what you want her to try. No one has minded for me, it's the whole dominance thing lol. My first time I didn't finish for ages.
 
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