"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Question about getting head

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Supremo

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So my girlfriend just recently gave me head for the first time...
It felt pretty good but I didn't even come close to finishing.

Other experiences with *******s all happened while I was drunk, so I don't remember much.

Next time I want to be able to tell my girlfriend what to do, but I'm not sure what to say because I don't know what advice to give. Eg. suck harder, use more tongue, slow down, etc. I have no idea.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Go a few days without whacking, and tell her to keep doing whatever feels good for you. Don't be afraid to talk dirty either, she'll get turned on and you'll get a lot more than head.
 
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Supremo said:
. suck harder, use more tongue, slow down, etc.
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How about all of the above.

Tell her exectly how you want it and give her directions when you want her to change pace or do something else. You can even tell her to use her hand on the shaft while she blows, and it never hurts for her to rub your nuts from time to time.
 
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DJDamage said:
How about all of the above.

Tell her exectly how you want it and give her directions when you want her to change pace or do something else. You can even tell her to use her hand on the shaft while she blows, and it never hurts for her to rub your nuts from time to time.
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Yup Yup. You can tell her how to do whatever you like.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Supremo said:
So my girlfriend just recently gave me head for the first time...
It felt pretty good but I didn't even come close to finishing.

Other experiences with *******s all happened while I was drunk, so I don't remember much.

Next time I want to be able to tell my girlfriend what to do, but I'm not sure what to say because I don't know what advice to give. Eg. suck harder, use more tongue, slow down, etc. I have no idea.

Holla back
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Exactly what I was thinking... dont masturbate for a while she'll get you, period.
 
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The guys here a right on when they talk about not masterbating. Just wanted to add that you shouldn't be afraid to guide her a bit, and find what you like. Just tell her what you want her to try. No one has minded for me, it's the whole dominance thing lol. My first time I didn't finish for ages.
 
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