"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Question about getting head

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So my girlfriend just recently gave me head for the first time...
It felt pretty good but I didn't even come close to finishing.

Other experiences with *******s all happened while I was drunk, so I don't remember much.

Next time I want to be able to tell my girlfriend what to do, but I'm not sure what to say because I don't know what advice to give. Eg. suck harder, use more tongue, slow down, etc. I have no idea.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Go a few days without whacking, and tell her to keep doing whatever feels good for you. Don't be afraid to talk dirty either, she'll get turned on and you'll get a lot more than head.
 
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Supremo said:
. suck harder, use more tongue, slow down, etc.
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How about all of the above.

Tell her exectly how you want it and give her directions when you want her to change pace or do something else. You can even tell her to use her hand on the shaft while she blows, and it never hurts for her to rub your nuts from time to time.
 
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DJDamage said:
How about all of the above.

Tell her exectly how you want it and give her directions when you want her to change pace or do something else. You can even tell her to use her hand on the shaft while she blows, and it never hurts for her to rub your nuts from time to time.
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Yup Yup. You can tell her how to do whatever you like.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Supremo said:
So my girlfriend just recently gave me head for the first time...
It felt pretty good but I didn't even come close to finishing.

Other experiences with *******s all happened while I was drunk, so I don't remember much.

Next time I want to be able to tell my girlfriend what to do, but I'm not sure what to say because I don't know what advice to give. Eg. suck harder, use more tongue, slow down, etc. I have no idea.

Holla back
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Exactly what I was thinking... dont masturbate for a while she'll get you, period.
 
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The guys here a right on when they talk about not masterbating. Just wanted to add that you shouldn't be afraid to guide her a bit, and find what you like. Just tell her what you want her to try. No one has minded for me, it's the whole dominance thing lol. My first time I didn't finish for ages.
 
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