You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Question for you, why do you ask?Originally posted by tristan22
If you came into $100 million dollars, what would you do and who would you hire to insure you don't lose all of it?
Any investment companies or lawyers you recommend?
thanks!
It doesn't seem to work imo.Originally posted by tristan22
Why not?
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I am assuming that you are asking how to grow the money, even though you really asked about not losing it.Originally posted by tristan22
If you came into $100 million dollars, what would you do and who would you hire to insure you don't lose all of it?
Any investment companies or lawyers you recommend?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Wow, seems like we think very alike. In fact, that bit about N.O. being a great investment opportunity...I'd been thinking about that before the hurricane struck. I keep it to myself though, because to say it, you'll sound like a greedy money-hungry mofo who doesn't care for human life. Although I do think about money and ways to make it almost all the time. I'll actually probably try to buy some land there if possible, when it clears up a bit.Originally posted by Page
If I had that much money, I would buy rental properties and office buildings to get positive cashflow to cover my base expenses, and then I would get into development. , I would hire someone to manage my properties, and then I would go down to whats left of New Orleans and get into development there once the water dries up. A lot of the buildings that weren't destroyed outright will probably be condemned due to water damage and structural damage, so it will take a ton of development to get the city back on its feet, and I would intend to cash in on that.
During my time there, I should be able to double or even triple my money if I play my cards right.
I predict that For the next couple of years, New Orleans is going to be a developer's wet dream. After all the mess gets cleaned up, that place is going to be BOOMING.
Actually, I started thinking about development only after I read Trump's Art of the Deal.Originally posted by h2o
I think we were both brainwashed very well by "Building Wealth" and/or "Rich Dad..."