Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Question for you, why do you ask?Originally posted by tristan22
If you came into $100 million dollars, what would you do and who would you hire to insure you don't lose all of it?
Any investment companies or lawyers you recommend?
thanks!
It doesn't seem to work imo.Originally posted by tristan22
Why not?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I am assuming that you are asking how to grow the money, even though you really asked about not losing it.Originally posted by tristan22
If you came into $100 million dollars, what would you do and who would you hire to insure you don't lose all of it?
Any investment companies or lawyers you recommend?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Wow, seems like we think very alike. In fact, that bit about N.O. being a great investment opportunity...I'd been thinking about that before the hurricane struck. I keep it to myself though, because to say it, you'll sound like a greedy money-hungry mofo who doesn't care for human life. Although I do think about money and ways to make it almost all the time. I'll actually probably try to buy some land there if possible, when it clears up a bit.Originally posted by Page
If I had that much money, I would buy rental properties and office buildings to get positive cashflow to cover my base expenses, and then I would get into development. , I would hire someone to manage my properties, and then I would go down to whats left of New Orleans and get into development there once the water dries up. A lot of the buildings that weren't destroyed outright will probably be condemned due to water damage and structural damage, so it will take a ton of development to get the city back on its feet, and I would intend to cash in on that.
During my time there, I should be able to double or even triple my money if I play my cards right.
I predict that For the next couple of years, New Orleans is going to be a developer's wet dream. After all the mess gets cleaned up, that place is going to be BOOMING.
Actually, I started thinking about development only after I read Trump's Art of the Deal.Originally posted by h2o
I think we were both brainwashed very well by "Building Wealth" and/or "Rich Dad..."