You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Question for you, why do you ask?Originally posted by tristan22
If you came into $100 million dollars, what would you do and who would you hire to insure you don't lose all of it?
Any investment companies or lawyers you recommend?
thanks!
It doesn't seem to work imo.Originally posted by tristan22
Why not?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I am assuming that you are asking how to grow the money, even though you really asked about not losing it.Originally posted by tristan22
If you came into $100 million dollars, what would you do and who would you hire to insure you don't lose all of it?
Any investment companies or lawyers you recommend?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Wow, seems like we think very alike. In fact, that bit about N.O. being a great investment opportunity...I'd been thinking about that before the hurricane struck. I keep it to myself though, because to say it, you'll sound like a greedy money-hungry mofo who doesn't care for human life. Although I do think about money and ways to make it almost all the time. I'll actually probably try to buy some land there if possible, when it clears up a bit.Originally posted by Page
If I had that much money, I would buy rental properties and office buildings to get positive cashflow to cover my base expenses, and then I would get into development. , I would hire someone to manage my properties, and then I would go down to whats left of New Orleans and get into development there once the water dries up. A lot of the buildings that weren't destroyed outright will probably be condemned due to water damage and structural damage, so it will take a ton of development to get the city back on its feet, and I would intend to cash in on that.
During my time there, I should be able to double or even triple my money if I play my cards right.
I predict that For the next couple of years, New Orleans is going to be a developer's wet dream. After all the mess gets cleaned up, that place is going to be BOOMING.
Actually, I started thinking about development only after I read Trump's Art of the Deal.Originally posted by h2o
I think we were both brainwashed very well by "Building Wealth" and/or "Rich Dad..."