Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Question for you, why do you ask?Originally posted by tristan22
If you came into $100 million dollars, what would you do and who would you hire to insure you don't lose all of it?
Any investment companies or lawyers you recommend?
thanks!
It doesn't seem to work imo.Originally posted by tristan22
Why not?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I am assuming that you are asking how to grow the money, even though you really asked about not losing it.Originally posted by tristan22
If you came into $100 million dollars, what would you do and who would you hire to insure you don't lose all of it?
Any investment companies or lawyers you recommend?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Wow, seems like we think very alike. In fact, that bit about N.O. being a great investment opportunity...I'd been thinking about that before the hurricane struck. I keep it to myself though, because to say it, you'll sound like a greedy money-hungry mofo who doesn't care for human life. Although I do think about money and ways to make it almost all the time. I'll actually probably try to buy some land there if possible, when it clears up a bit.Originally posted by Page
If I had that much money, I would buy rental properties and office buildings to get positive cashflow to cover my base expenses, and then I would get into development. , I would hire someone to manage my properties, and then I would go down to whats left of New Orleans and get into development there once the water dries up. A lot of the buildings that weren't destroyed outright will probably be condemned due to water damage and structural damage, so it will take a ton of development to get the city back on its feet, and I would intend to cash in on that.
During my time there, I should be able to double or even triple my money if I play my cards right.
I predict that For the next couple of years, New Orleans is going to be a developer's wet dream. After all the mess gets cleaned up, that place is going to be BOOMING.
Actually, I started thinking about development only after I read Trump's Art of the Deal.Originally posted by h2o
I think we were both brainwashed very well by "Building Wealth" and/or "Rich Dad..."