"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Is it supposed to be read over the course of several weeks for any special reason, or can I just read it in a few days?

Also, other than reading topics on these boards how exactly should I get started towards becoming a DJ? I woudl guess reaidng the DJ Bible is the first step, and then should I DO A BOOTCAMP OR SOMETHING? Is there any other free materical on the web that I should read that might add something this site doesnt? BAsically I need some sort of syllabus.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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read it over the course of several weeks and then complete the bootcamp.

that's basically the best way to do it

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I joined sosuave when there was no bootcamp, so I had to learn everything without that motivation. Almost every tip in the Tips forum was in the DJ Bible, so I just read all of it over the course of a few days. I occasionally re-read parts of the DJ Bible when I feel the need to work on a certain aspect of my personality.
 
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Desdinova said:
I joined sosuave when there was no bootcamp, so I had to learn everything without that motivation. Almost every tip in the Tips forum was in the DJ Bible, so I just read all of it over the course of a few days. I occasionally re-read parts of the DJ Bible when I feel the need to work on a certain aspect of my personality.
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Over the course of the last year, I rarely read the DJ Bible anymore because I feel that I have gained everything from it (I've been here for almost four years as well).

Desdinova, do you feel the same way that I do?

It is a perfect start for newbies though and I suggest the DJ Bible to everyone as well.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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ok so I shoudl read the DJ Bible as it is outlined and then do a bootcamp?
 
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sounds like a plan

when it comes to the holy Word of Pook, though, I'd recommend taking time to meditate on his precepts
 
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any tips that any of you guys wish you knew going into this? Maybe a small guide on my way to understanding the bigger picture?
 
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yeah, I kinda wish I'd started on the path to Pookdom earlier and ignored a lot of the speed seduction crap. Although I made some improvements my first year after getting here, it wasn't until I got around to reading the Book of Pook and Anti-Dump's Machine that I really saw improvements in my life.

Book of Pook
http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/The Book of Pook.pdf

AntiDump's Machine
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39729
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39769
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39785
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39887
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39888
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40188
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40241
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40347
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40698
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=58363

As for the other stuff on this site, it can be good for getting you a little more experience with ladies and a little more comfort in some of the basics (kino, conversation, being playful, etc.). But most of the stuff in the DJ Bible won't help you to become a real man. You'll just improve yourself on the outside...like a freshly cleaned gravesite. To really succeed with the ladies, you have to become a real man. And part of being a real man means not giving a damn about ladies. Paradoxical, I realize.


And you might check out "The Natural Order of Things" while you're at it.
 
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yep read it twice, do the bootcamp and PM me... cuz I'll be testing you on the DMAT!:rolleyes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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