“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Question about DeadLifts.

GameTime76

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When performing deadlifts, are you wanting to mainly use your legs. Or both your arm and legs?

I'm just curious cause, I been getting back in to weight lifting and want to do it correctly when I do.

Also, if there is anything else I should know about deadlifts. Feel free to add.

Thanks.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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shaunuk

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You aren't really using your legs as the main muscle. When you're starting the lift, imagine driving your legs through the floor - all other things in place, you'll initiate the lift right (keep tight and keep your back arched etc). You'll end up using your back, core, hips, legs etc.

There'll be threads of correct deadlift form on ironaddicts.com and you'll find a few good form videos on youtube.
 

jocca

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You only use your arms to hold onto the bar not to actually lift the weight
 

mrRuckus

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shaunuk said:
You aren't really using your legs as the main muscle.
Um. I guess all that quads and hamstring work people do to increase their deadlift is for no reason, and i just imagine the soreness after deadlift day.
 

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Quads and hammies do the hardest part of deadlift which is to pull the weight from the floor to about knee level (or half way to the top position). If you're not sore in those places the next day, you're not doing deadlift right.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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