"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Question about DeadLifts.

GameTime76

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When performing deadlifts, are you wanting to mainly use your legs. Or both your arm and legs?

I'm just curious cause, I been getting back in to weight lifting and want to do it correctly when I do.

Also, if there is anything else I should know about deadlifts. Feel free to add.

Thanks.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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shaunuk

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You aren't really using your legs as the main muscle. When you're starting the lift, imagine driving your legs through the floor - all other things in place, you'll initiate the lift right (keep tight and keep your back arched etc). You'll end up using your back, core, hips, legs etc.

There'll be threads of correct deadlift form on ironaddicts.com and you'll find a few good form videos on youtube.
 

jocca

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You only use your arms to hold onto the bar not to actually lift the weight
 

mrRuckus

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shaunuk said:
You aren't really using your legs as the main muscle.
Um. I guess all that quads and hamstring work people do to increase their deadlift is for no reason, and i just imagine the soreness after deadlift day.
 

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Quads and hammies do the hardest part of deadlift which is to pull the weight from the floor to about knee level (or half way to the top position). If you're not sore in those places the next day, you're not doing deadlift right.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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