"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

question about a weekend encounter i had with this girl

PistolGripPumpin

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 26, 2007
Messages
11
Reaction score
0
Location
Jersey
ok, here goes...i was at my bro's apartment over the weekend and i met this
really cool girl who happens to be good friends with my bro's girlfriend. i
wasn't gonna try to get with her at first, but after some mutual flirting, i
said **** it, went over and sat next to her, we flirted a tad more, i
utilized "kino", and when i thought she was ready to be kissed, i laid one
on her. so we hooked up and pretty much spent the rest of the night together (no sex though). i also tried to avoid coming off as needy or clingy by getting up every now and then to do something else, like helping my bro
clean up beer cans for example. this girl was awesome. she possessed the
qualities i look for in a woman i would like to have a relationship with.
also, she seemed VERY into me. she cuddled close, told me i was turning her on, didnt want to leave me, things of that nature. but ANYWAY, here comes the mistake. the next morning, i dont get her number when she leaves. i was wondering if there was anything i could do. would it be creepy if i got her number from my bro's g/f? should i contact her through myspace? (we both have one) are my chances messed up b/c i went up her shirt and down her pants? (she really enjoyed that, though) but since i did those things, would our encounter probably be more of a one night thing instead of something that could blossom into a relationship? is it worth pursuing? i would love and appreciate it if anyone could help me out with some advice or input. i really want to see if there's anything there. i mean, the only way i'll know is if i try, right? thanks again.

- chuck
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

CrunchyNut

Don Juan
Joined
Dec 3, 2006
Messages
168
Reaction score
2
Location
England
I think its one night stand.

Any chance any of you guys could post a sticky with all the abbreviations? I would, but dont know a fair few of them myself!
 

Skel

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 5, 2003
Messages
1,721
Reaction score
10
Learn to use capitol letters and paragraphs.
 

PistolGripPumpin

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 26, 2007
Messages
11
Reaction score
0
Location
Jersey
i didnt do that with the paragraphs, thats just how it turned out. and i hope ur telling everyone else the same thing b/c im not the only one that doesnt capitolize. anyways, should i just be straight up in asking her? like, "hey, we should get together sometime. how can i reach you?" or "i had fun the other night, we should get together, is there a number i can reach you at?" or something along those lines? and u dont think i'll come off as a wuss by asking for her number over the computer?
 

PistolGripPumpin

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 26, 2007
Messages
11
Reaction score
0
Location
Jersey
sorry if i'm being a pain with this topic. i've done some reading in other posts and have been looking through the DJ Bible, and i saw that you should wait 2-3 days to call (this i already knew), and it's probably not a good idea to call on a thursday, friday, or saturday b/c she'll probably already have plans (this i was not aware of), for the purpose of your phone call was to set up a date - no fluff.

Let's say i get this number, and the end of that 2-3 day time period lands on a friday or saturday. what do you guys feel would be the best thing to do? or should i just call her since it's been a couple days since i last saw her?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

PistolGripPumpin

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 26, 2007
Messages
11
Reaction score
0
Location
Jersey
people keep reading this thread but no one posts any advice. alright, does everyone not like me or something? answer that question in box #9 and ill never come back again. thanks.
 

sidewind3r

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 23, 2005
Messages
34
Reaction score
0
Age
50
my advice is, just get in touch with her one way or another and she'll probably give you a good reception.
 
Top