“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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question about a weekend encounter i had with this girl

PistolGripPumpin

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ok, here goes...i was at my bro's apartment over the weekend and i met this
really cool girl who happens to be good friends with my bro's girlfriend. i
wasn't gonna try to get with her at first, but after some mutual flirting, i
said **** it, went over and sat next to her, we flirted a tad more, i
utilized "kino", and when i thought she was ready to be kissed, i laid one
on her. so we hooked up and pretty much spent the rest of the night together (no sex though). i also tried to avoid coming off as needy or clingy by getting up every now and then to do something else, like helping my bro
clean up beer cans for example. this girl was awesome. she possessed the
qualities i look for in a woman i would like to have a relationship with.
also, she seemed VERY into me. she cuddled close, told me i was turning her on, didnt want to leave me, things of that nature. but ANYWAY, here comes the mistake. the next morning, i dont get her number when she leaves. i was wondering if there was anything i could do. would it be creepy if i got her number from my bro's g/f? should i contact her through myspace? (we both have one) are my chances messed up b/c i went up her shirt and down her pants? (she really enjoyed that, though) but since i did those things, would our encounter probably be more of a one night thing instead of something that could blossom into a relationship? is it worth pursuing? i would love and appreciate it if anyone could help me out with some advice or input. i really want to see if there's anything there. i mean, the only way i'll know is if i try, right? thanks again.

- chuck
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CrunchyNut

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I think its one night stand.

Any chance any of you guys could post a sticky with all the abbreviations? I would, but dont know a fair few of them myself!
 

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Learn to use capitol letters and paragraphs.
 

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i didnt do that with the paragraphs, thats just how it turned out. and i hope ur telling everyone else the same thing b/c im not the only one that doesnt capitolize. anyways, should i just be straight up in asking her? like, "hey, we should get together sometime. how can i reach you?" or "i had fun the other night, we should get together, is there a number i can reach you at?" or something along those lines? and u dont think i'll come off as a wuss by asking for her number over the computer?
 

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sorry if i'm being a pain with this topic. i've done some reading in other posts and have been looking through the DJ Bible, and i saw that you should wait 2-3 days to call (this i already knew), and it's probably not a good idea to call on a thursday, friday, or saturday b/c she'll probably already have plans (this i was not aware of), for the purpose of your phone call was to set up a date - no fluff.

Let's say i get this number, and the end of that 2-3 day time period lands on a friday or saturday. what do you guys feel would be the best thing to do? or should i just call her since it's been a couple days since i last saw her?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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people keep reading this thread but no one posts any advice. alright, does everyone not like me or something? answer that question in box #9 and ill never come back again. thanks.
 

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my advice is, just get in touch with her one way or another and she'll probably give you a good reception.
 
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