"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Message me or reply to this thread.
Let's do this.
I've done over 2,500 cold approaches.
I've been trained by several different major companies (many of which are closed now).

I am currently in a slump and need to get back on my game.
Who's with me?
I don't play around, so we can be accountability partners or we can schedule to go out a consistent day and time to sarge.

Let's do it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I could always use a wingman. I’m in New Jersey. I know a few good places to pickup woman
 
Carmina Gadelica

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What part of New Jersey and how long does it take you to get to the city?
How long can you usually stay?
What time do you usually have to leave? (If you don't stay in NY)

And a brief summary of your game if that's not inconvenient. I like to know who I'm going out with lol. I guess age/lays/experience/current sticking points/motivations?

None of that is necessary though, message me to exchange contact info.
 
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New Brunswick nj. Going to the city less than two hours with traffic. I don’t have a curfew. I just started doing game a little over a year now. I’m 27. Lays over 20 plus. I’m still a rookie but improving my game is definitely something I’m passionate about. Give me your contact info so we can set something up.
 
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Im from brooklyn currently in miami looking to travel their thsi summe dm me!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Aurora Demon said:
bump

Message me or reply here if you'd like to meet.
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I'm down to meet and sarge in the NYC and Long Island, NY area if you are. It's hilarious and a bit sad how difficult it is to find a wingman these days, especially given how all the old PUA forums appear to be dead.

Re your questions:

What part of New Jersey and how long does it take you to get to the city?
- I'm at the border of Nassau and Suffolk of Long Island. To get into NYC would take around an hour.

How long can you usually stay?
- I try to go out Wednesday - Saturday night. I like to hit the bars no later than 9pm, and on Wednesday and Thursday I'll try to leave by 11:30pm. Friday and Saturday, I'll stay until 2am if I need to.

What time do you usually have to leave? (If you don't stay in NY)
- See above.

And a brief summary of your game if that's not inconvenient. I like to know who I'm going out with lol. I guess age/lays/experience/current sticking points/motivations?
- Age = 29
- Experience = I used to play the Stylelife challenge every other semester in college to push myself to be social. The whole point of it is to get a date in 30 days, and let's just say that I won it a number of separate times and got more than a date out of it. I'm experienced in that I understand the fundamentals of the Game, but I'm out of practice. Looking to get back into it. I've been going solo to play at bars for the past 4 months Wed-Saturday, and I need a wing.
- Sticking Points = Staying in set after the social hook point, and not ejecting prematurely. Opening mixed sets - I likely need a better mixed set opener. Generating attraction and escalating.

I would send you a PM, but it looks like this function isn't working for me right now. Let me know if you're available. My email is the following:

[email protected]
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How's it like these days in NYC, I've probably done well over 1000 approaches in NYC, miss it sometimes.
 
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@eli77 if you go out and wing will your openers be anything like your thread topics?
 
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I’m in Philly. Let me know if you guys want to do a sosuave nyc meeting these upcoming weeks
 
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I'm down for an NYC meeting this month and next! Feel free to pm me.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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tksniper

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I’ll be in NYC to meet family but would be dying to game afterwards. All I do during thanksgiving is eat and bet on football anyway. I’d love to hang out with some wings and try to get laid.
 
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