"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Carmina Gadelica

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Message me or reply to this thread.
Let's do this.
I've done over 2,500 cold approaches.
I've been trained by several different major companies (many of which are closed now).

I am currently in a slump and need to get back on my game.
Who's with me?
I don't play around, so we can be accountability partners or we can schedule to go out a consistent day and time to sarge.

Let's do it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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aarmondo

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I could always use a wingman. I’m in New Jersey. I know a few good places to pickup woman
 

Carmina Gadelica

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What part of New Jersey and how long does it take you to get to the city?
How long can you usually stay?
What time do you usually have to leave? (If you don't stay in NY)

And a brief summary of your game if that's not inconvenient. I like to know who I'm going out with lol. I guess age/lays/experience/current sticking points/motivations?

None of that is necessary though, message me to exchange contact info.
 

aarmondo

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New Brunswick nj. Going to the city less than two hours with traffic. I don’t have a curfew. I just started doing game a little over a year now. I’m 27. Lays over 20 plus. I’m still a rookie but improving my game is definitely something I’m passionate about. Give me your contact info so we can set something up.
 

eli77

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Im from brooklyn currently in miami looking to travel their thsi summe dm me!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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nappy101

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bump

Message me or reply here if you'd like to meet.
I'm down to meet and sarge in the NYC and Long Island, NY area if you are. It's hilarious and a bit sad how difficult it is to find a wingman these days, especially given how all the old PUA forums appear to be dead.

Re your questions:

What part of New Jersey and how long does it take you to get to the city?
- I'm at the border of Nassau and Suffolk of Long Island. To get into NYC would take around an hour.

How long can you usually stay?
- I try to go out Wednesday - Saturday night. I like to hit the bars no later than 9pm, and on Wednesday and Thursday I'll try to leave by 11:30pm. Friday and Saturday, I'll stay until 2am if I need to.

What time do you usually have to leave? (If you don't stay in NY)
- See above.

And a brief summary of your game if that's not inconvenient. I like to know who I'm going out with lol. I guess age/lays/experience/current sticking points/motivations?
- Age = 29
- Experience = I used to play the Stylelife challenge every other semester in college to push myself to be social. The whole point of it is to get a date in 30 days, and let's just say that I won it a number of separate times and got more than a date out of it. I'm experienced in that I understand the fundamentals of the Game, but I'm out of practice. Looking to get back into it. I've been going solo to play at bars for the past 4 months Wed-Saturday, and I need a wing.
- Sticking Points = Staying in set after the social hook point, and not ejecting prematurely. Opening mixed sets - I likely need a better mixed set opener. Generating attraction and escalating.

I would send you a PM, but it looks like this function isn't working for me right now. Let me know if you're available. My email is the following:

[email protected]
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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SpartanWarrior77

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How's it like these days in NYC, I've probably done well over 1000 approaches in NYC, miss it sometimes.
 

BillyPilgrim

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@eli77 if you go out and wing will your openers be anything like your thread topics?
 

tksniper

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I’m in Philly. Let me know if you guys want to do a sosuave nyc meeting these upcoming weeks
 
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p_1337

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I'm down for an NYC meeting this month and next! Feel free to pm me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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tksniper

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I’ll be in NYC to meet family but would be dying to game afterwards. All I do during thanksgiving is eat and bet on football anyway. I’d love to hang out with some wings and try to get laid.
 
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