Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Whenever there's a dichotomy.spider_007 said:...why does everything have to be dicected into groups.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Whenever there's a dichotomy.spider_007 said:...why does everything have to be dicected into groups.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Amen to that.WhAcKeD! said:The guy was and still is a douche, who the hell cares.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
this is not what happened.Joe The Homophobe said:Puerto Rican lover was the best poster this forum ever had. There was a plot by a couple of afc members of this forum that didn't like PRL's direct/straight to the point style and with the help of the mod casanova they got PRL banned.
What a shame.
Now where have I heard that before?...penkitten said:...
people should take responsibility for their own actions and accept the consequences without placing blame on other people.
Is there anything in life that you DON'T blame on a conspiracy?Joe The Homophobe said:There was a plot by a couple of afc members of this forum that didn't like PRL's direct/straight to the point style and with the help of the mod casanova they got PRL banned.