Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Whenever there's a dichotomy.spider_007 said:...why does everything have to be dicected into groups.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Whenever there's a dichotomy.spider_007 said:...why does everything have to be dicected into groups.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Amen to that.WhAcKeD! said:The guy was and still is a douche, who the hell cares.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
this is not what happened.Joe The Homophobe said:Puerto Rican lover was the best poster this forum ever had. There was a plot by a couple of afc members of this forum that didn't like PRL's direct/straight to the point style and with the help of the mod casanova they got PRL banned.
What a shame.
Now where have I heard that before?...penkitten said:...
people should take responsibility for their own actions and accept the consequences without placing blame on other people.
Is there anything in life that you DON'T blame on a conspiracy?Joe The Homophobe said:There was a plot by a couple of afc members of this forum that didn't like PRL's direct/straight to the point style and with the help of the mod casanova they got PRL banned.