Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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spider_007 said:
...why does everything have to be dicected into groups.
Whenever there's a dichotomy.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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PRL Banned?
Wow
Back in the day he gave great advice
Crazy to see him banned
But I guess he did look a bit insane in those threads about him calling the mods homos
 

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WhAcKeD! said:
The guy was and still is a douche, who the hell cares.
Amen to that.
 

Joe The Homophobe

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Puerto Rican lover was the best poster this forum ever had. There was a plot by a couple of afc members of this forum that didn't like PRL's direct/straight to the point style and with the help of the mod casanova they got PRL banned.

What a shame.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Joe The Homophobe said:
Puerto Rican lover was the best poster this forum ever had. There was a plot by a couple of afc members of this forum that didn't like PRL's direct/straight to the point style and with the help of the mod casanova they got PRL banned.

What a shame.
this is not what happened.
when someone disobeys the rules of the forum, the mods can delete, move or close threads however they do not have the power to ban anyone.

all banning is up to allen himself. if he wants to , he just bans them. other times, if he cant decide what to do, he will let the mods vote on it.
stop blaming one moderator because someone got banned. they got banned because they didnt follow forum rules. ultimatley, it was up to allen, the owner of the site and the maker of the rules.

people should take responsibility for their own actions and accept the consequences without placing blame on other people.
 

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penkitten said:
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people should take responsibility for their own actions and accept the consequences without placing blame on other people.
Now where have I heard that before?... :whistle:
 

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Joe The Homophobe said:
There was a plot by a couple of afc members of this forum that didn't like PRL's direct/straight to the point style and with the help of the mod casanova they got PRL banned.
Is there anything in life that you DON'T blame on a conspiracy?
 
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