Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Whenever there's a dichotomy.spider_007 said:...why does everything have to be dicected into groups.
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Whenever there's a dichotomy.spider_007 said:...why does everything have to be dicected into groups.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Amen to that.WhAcKeD! said:The guy was and still is a douche, who the hell cares.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
this is not what happened.Joe The Homophobe said:Puerto Rican lover was the best poster this forum ever had. There was a plot by a couple of afc members of this forum that didn't like PRL's direct/straight to the point style and with the help of the mod casanova they got PRL banned.
What a shame.
Now where have I heard that before?...penkitten said:...
people should take responsibility for their own actions and accept the consequences without placing blame on other people.
Is there anything in life that you DON'T blame on a conspiracy?Joe The Homophobe said:There was a plot by a couple of afc members of this forum that didn't like PRL's direct/straight to the point style and with the help of the mod casanova they got PRL banned.