The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That may be, but there is ALOT of truth in what this guy talks about... but he says american women, I would say 'americanized' women. A friend of mine is dating an 'americanized' east indian woman, who told him that for their anniversary to buy her a Gucci watch (800$)....Originally posted by Slashco
Have you looked at this person's 'book'? Just another bitter, misogynistic loser who has decided to blame women for all his problems. I have no faith in anything this guy says.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Erm, but isnt the point of having a gf to be with only her and not to meet girls? Of course, with the intention of going out with themOriginally posted by dillin
This is true but alot of people are like "I don't care" but thats not what they are feeling inside, you have to REALLY not care much and you will be surprised at what comes along.
Have you ever noticed the guys who think they are so cool because they have a girlfriend are the ones totally whipped by there g/f's and hardly ever meet girls?
I know so many losers who act like the happiness of life is having some stupid "girlfriend" HA! What losers and they base there happiness on one person
Understand that when a situation like this occurs it is a "you reap what you sow" situation.Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
If you don't see this reality today, it is because you have become blinded by your own lusts. When you have a ho baby and are paying $900 a month in child support and the woman doesn't let you see the child and you have to live in a one bedroom apartment while she has a 4 bedroom house, then you'll be an advocate of nomarriage.com!! [/B]