"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Pu**y is worthless. Do not chase pu**y
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This is true but alot of people are like "I don't care" but thats not what they are feeling inside, you have to REALLY not care much and you will be surprised at what comes along.
Have you ever noticed the guys who think they are so cool because they have a girlfriend are the ones totally whipped by there g/f's and hardly ever meet girls?
I know so many losers who act like the happiness of life is having some stupid "girlfriend" HA! What losers and they base there happiness on one person
Have you ever noticed the guys who think they are so cool because they have a girlfriend are the ones totally whipped by there g/f's and hardly ever meet girls?
I know so many losers who act like the happiness of life is having some stupid "girlfriend" HA! What losers and they base there happiness on one person
Don of Truth
Don Juan
UNBELIEVABLE
The only truth to that link is the AFC on the other end of it that wrote it.
If all you want is p*ssy, then go get a hooker or a pocket p*ssy.
The guy who wrote that is doing so out of frustration! I feel sorry for him. He does not know how to relate to women.
You now that list Rachel made ?
She's just a woman! She has her views and ideas. It doesn't mean you have to be everything on that list.
You just have to be a MAN, that's what she wants. She wants a MAN.
She isn't getting it and it's her cry for help.
She would be happy with a guy that was 1/3 of that list....as long as he was a MAN.
The only truth to that link is the AFC on the other end of it that wrote it.
If all you want is p*ssy, then go get a hooker or a pocket p*ssy.
The guy who wrote that is doing so out of frustration! I feel sorry for him. He does not know how to relate to women.
You now that list Rachel made ?
She's just a woman! She has her views and ideas. It doesn't mean you have to be everything on that list.
You just have to be a MAN, that's what she wants. She wants a MAN.
She isn't getting it and it's her cry for help.
She would be happy with a guy that was 1/3 of that list....as long as he was a MAN.
yes I agree with the fact women love a man that isn't focused on women. The less you give a **** the more they love you. The more you focus on your own things the more they come your way.
That is the natural order of things.
To hate women and to be jaded is no way to live your life. A man that is bitter is not a man.
Are people on this site Jaded? you bet they are. And I think some have gone too far with it. Just like this guy from NoMarriage.com
I would encurage those people to think this way:
I love women because they are my weakness.
It is easy to get mad at a woman for what she says, but it takes a man to ignore it.
It is easy to hit a woman back, but it takes a man to smile back and walk away.
It is easy to become frustrated with feminism, but it takes a man to realize how insignificant it is.
It is easy to let a woman ruin you, but it takes a man to avoid the danger.
It is easy to become desparate, but it takes a man to kill that desparation.
It is easy to blame women, but It takes a man to blame himself, change, and become stronger.
Yep if you hate women, then I would declare war on those personality traits that are causing you to think that way. Maybe a woman did **** you over really bad. but it was your fault for not being as picky as you should of and it was your fault for not preparing for the worst.
As man, only blame yourself for your own failures in life.
That is the natural order of things.
To hate women and to be jaded is no way to live your life. A man that is bitter is not a man.
Are people on this site Jaded? you bet they are. And I think some have gone too far with it. Just like this guy from NoMarriage.com
I would encurage those people to think this way:
I love women because they are my weakness.
It is easy to get mad at a woman for what she says, but it takes a man to ignore it.
It is easy to hit a woman back, but it takes a man to smile back and walk away.
It is easy to become frustrated with feminism, but it takes a man to realize how insignificant it is.
It is easy to let a woman ruin you, but it takes a man to avoid the danger.
It is easy to become desparate, but it takes a man to kill that desparation.
It is easy to blame women, but It takes a man to blame himself, change, and become stronger.
Yep if you hate women, then I would declare war on those personality traits that are causing you to think that way. Maybe a woman did **** you over really bad. but it was your fault for not being as picky as you should of and it was your fault for not preparing for the worst.
As man, only blame yourself for your own failures in life.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Silquee Smoove
Master Don Juan
I've got to stick up for nomarriage.com
This guy is against marriage though not totally against women. I've decided to heed some of his advice since most relationships nowadays are nothing more than mere "games" and people its' "players".
He's just giving those who want it caution.
This guy is against marriage though not totally against women. I've decided to heed some of his advice since most relationships nowadays are nothing more than mere "games" and people its' "players".
He's just giving those who want it caution.
Don of Truth
Don Juan
Just a few notes...
***I thought I'd shed some light on each individual comment you have made about "think this way".
I would encurage those people to think this way:
I love women because they are my weakness.
***Who says they should be a weakness ?
Women aren't a weakness...The weakness is the attachment to how women can make you feel (or how you allow them to make you feel).
Love them because they are humans and put on earth by God to fullfill your desires as a man and vise versa.
It is easy to get mad at a woman for what she says, but it takes a man to ignore it.
***Theoretically, detachment would allow you to not even have a need to ignore. Ignoring is only what a man does if he doesn't know how to handle a situation or does not want to deal with it.
Alpha males show their boundaries to others through calmness and directness. Everything else they take care of either directly or indirectly.
Why would you waste your anger on what a woman says anyway ? Save your anger for when you get jumped by five gang members.
It is easy to hit a woman back, but it takes a man to smile back and walk away.
***Detachment is the key. Try this for fun: Next time you are insulted by a women say "Why, that is so wonderful you pointed that out, you are absolutely right".
It is easy to become frustrated with feminism, but it takes a man to realize how insignificant it is.
***Have to detach yourself from what others think. Feminism will always submit to the power of the alpha male.
It is easy to let a woman ruin you, but it takes a man to avoid the danger.
***Women are never the reason for a man's downfall. It's always himself. But it does take a clear head to keep clear of danger and life's pitfalls.
It is easy to become desparate, but it takes a man to kill that desparation.
***A 70 year old virgin who has never kissed a woman can be free of desperation. It's all about perspectives and detachment.
It is easy to blame women, but It takes a man to blame himself, change, and become stronger.
***Ok, I'll go with you on that one.
Yep if you hate women, then I would declare war on those personality traits that are causing you to think that way. Maybe a woman did **** you over really bad. but it was your fault for not being as picky as you should of and it was your fault for not preparing for the worst.
***Don't you see? There is NO worst. It's all in your head.
As man, only blame yourself for your own failures in life.
***The only failure in life is if you do not grow and learn from your mistakes / past.
***I thought I'd shed some light on each individual comment you have made about "think this way".
I would encurage those people to think this way:
I love women because they are my weakness.
***Who says they should be a weakness ?
Women aren't a weakness...The weakness is the attachment to how women can make you feel (or how you allow them to make you feel).
Love them because they are humans and put on earth by God to fullfill your desires as a man and vise versa.
It is easy to get mad at a woman for what she says, but it takes a man to ignore it.
***Theoretically, detachment would allow you to not even have a need to ignore. Ignoring is only what a man does if he doesn't know how to handle a situation or does not want to deal with it.
Alpha males show their boundaries to others through calmness and directness. Everything else they take care of either directly or indirectly.
Why would you waste your anger on what a woman says anyway ? Save your anger for when you get jumped by five gang members.
It is easy to hit a woman back, but it takes a man to smile back and walk away.
***Detachment is the key. Try this for fun: Next time you are insulted by a women say "Why, that is so wonderful you pointed that out, you are absolutely right".
It is easy to become frustrated with feminism, but it takes a man to realize how insignificant it is.
***Have to detach yourself from what others think. Feminism will always submit to the power of the alpha male.
It is easy to let a woman ruin you, but it takes a man to avoid the danger.
***Women are never the reason for a man's downfall. It's always himself. But it does take a clear head to keep clear of danger and life's pitfalls.
It is easy to become desparate, but it takes a man to kill that desparation.
***A 70 year old virgin who has never kissed a woman can be free of desperation. It's all about perspectives and detachment.
It is easy to blame women, but It takes a man to blame himself, change, and become stronger.
***Ok, I'll go with you on that one.
Yep if you hate women, then I would declare war on those personality traits that are causing you to think that way. Maybe a woman did **** you over really bad. but it was your fault for not being as picky as you should of and it was your fault for not preparing for the worst.
***Don't you see? There is NO worst. It's all in your head.
As man, only blame yourself for your own failures in life.
***The only failure in life is if you do not grow and learn from your mistakes / past.
playasupreme
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Women are out for themselves. However the "no marriage" and the "ladder guy" are a bit disturbed for my taste. Don't delude yourself with fairy tales but don't get overly bitter either.
So pimp its scary
Master Don Juan
That may be, but there is ALOT of truth in what this guy talks about... but he says american women, I would say 'americanized' women. A friend of mine is dating an 'americanized' east indian woman, who told him that for their anniversary to buy her a Gucci watch (800$)....Originally posted by Slashco
Have you looked at this person's 'book'? Just another bitter, misogynistic loser who has decided to blame women for all his problems. I have no faith in anything this guy says.
When you see what some women do to the men that they once married, or go to a divorce court to watch how 'anti-male' it really is.
Basically, women are considered to be worthy parents by default, unless there is proof showing otherwise, and the man must always FIRST prove his worth as a parent (usually through designated visits, or visits that are accompanied by a social worker who judges the mans value as a father) before being able to be the exclusive 'parent'.
I would also recommend talking to older people that are married... most that I've talked to told me the same thing "Don't marry before 30." Or "Don't marry untill you want children."
BTW, I am not a misogynist, I truly love all women (except the fat ones... gross, but that is fat people in general) for what they are, and it's this love that is making me want to become the man that will capture a woman's heart and to be the man that she will love to the end of her days (or mine, whichever comes first).
PuertoRican_Lover
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The guy speaks truth and the truth is ugly and this ugliness comes from the reality of women today and not from his words.
You young guys don't know anything that has transpired in the last 30 years (nor do you care) and have no experience when dealing with such women in a ltr or marriage. Everybody here is mainly out for the sex - once you are 40 you will understand why men talk this way - because it will be your rreality.
If you don't see this reality today, it is because you have become blinded by your own lusts. When you have a ho baby and are paying $900 a month in child support and the woman doesn't let you see the child and you have to live in a one bedroom apartment while she has a 4 bedroom house, then you'll be an advocate of nomarriage.com!!
You young guys don't know anything that has transpired in the last 30 years (nor do you care) and have no experience when dealing with such women in a ltr or marriage. Everybody here is mainly out for the sex - once you are 40 you will understand why men talk this way - because it will be your rreality.
If you don't see this reality today, it is because you have become blinded by your own lusts. When you have a ho baby and are paying $900 a month in child support and the woman doesn't let you see the child and you have to live in a one bedroom apartment while she has a 4 bedroom house, then you'll be an advocate of nomarriage.com!!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
PuertoRican_Lover
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"Misogynist" is a lesbian/hor term in our modernday vernacular - quit using it!!! Only women and effeminates use the term!!
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Erm, but isnt the point of having a gf to be with only her and not to meet girls? Of course, with the intention of going out with themOriginally posted by dillin
This is true but alot of people are like "I don't care" but thats not what they are feeling inside, you have to REALLY not care much and you will be surprised at what comes along.
Have you ever noticed the guys who think they are so cool because they have a girlfriend are the ones totally whipped by there g/f's and hardly ever meet girls?
I know so many losers who act like the happiness of life is having some stupid "girlfriend" HA! What losers and they base there happiness on one person
I think he generalized too much. I dont want those things that girl listed. I accept a man for who he is, even with his flaws, and dont adhere to any list. Like, she said she likes men to be hairless, basically. Well, if they're not naturally like that, i aint gonna tell them to shave their chests and arms and face. Only fags and models do that. I mean, ew. and pierced ears? Not many girls would prefer that. Its And she said she wants a guy to be affectionate to her in front of her friends, i wouldnt, i dont believe in pda's. Theyre gross.
it was like he was saying, this is what a typical american woman wants. Well, i'm a typical american woman and i couldnt give a sh1t about 90% of those things, like being a good dresser. A white tee shirt and jeans is fine with me. Unshaven is fine with me. I dont want a lot of attention, i need time to myself. Plus, it gives the illusion its all about me, when it isnt. Sensitive??? thats far-fetched. In what sense? crying? yeah, its good for him to express feelings, but basically she wants a girlfriend if she wants sensitive.
Basically, these things are ideal. The guy said she'd want every single one because she has a vagina. Sorry, but he's a d.ouchebag.
Don of Truth
Don Juan
Understand that when a situation like this occurs it is a "you reap what you sow" situation.Originally posted by PuertoRican_Lover
If you don't see this reality today, it is because you have become blinded by your own lusts. When you have a ho baby and are paying $900 a month in child support and the woman doesn't let you see the child and you have to live in a one bedroom apartment while she has a 4 bedroom house, then you'll be an advocate of nomarriage.com!! [/B]
How is this so ?
An alpha male will not put himself in a situation where he will have a "ho baby".
There are quality women out there but they are rare because quality men are rare.
I see women as a mirror, a mirror that reflects to men our own nature. I blame women for nothing.
We are men, it is our burden and duty to carry blame.