"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Psycho gf contacts my ex

QuadDeuces

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My girlfriend is insane, a drama queen, cry baby, stalker.

She gained access to my phone and saw some messages my ex and me sent. Nothing sexual, nothing daily, just regular “how you been, I really liked my time with you. Hope youre doing good” texts.
She went ballistic I mean ballistic, threatened to kill herself. Hit me almost broke her thumb as she slammed the door.

Anyway my ex contacted me that she had contacted her on facebook and she has told her every fukking detail of my life, she wanted to know everything about me and my ex relationship (Which ended 9 months ago!!!) yesterday I found out that my ex and my gf are in daily communication with eachother checking dates, checking lies I told.(Because I was cheating in the final stages of relationship with ex)
The gf lives with me, my ex lives in fukking Spain, can you imagine how crazy she is.

I am really thinking about dumping her now, I feel nothing for her anymore only embarrasment and disgust no respect. But how do I get rid of her out of my house without her slitting her wrists, or slamming my macbook against the wall? She is highly volatile and emotional it even scares me a little bit when she goes in 5h long screaming meltdowns over little things like when I leave her alone for 1,5h to visit friends or family. Always thinks Im cheating or something.

Anyway whats the best way to dump her without revenge actions?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Glassguy

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Anyway whats the best way to dump her without revenge actions?
The situation depends on your living arrangements. If you moved in with her and the rent/home ownership is through her, you simply move out.

If its your place (legally) and she moved in with you, simply tell her to move out. If that doesnt work, call the cops. They will assist in her moving out.

Problem solved.
 

marmel75

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You are with her why? Do yourself a favor and stop wasting months of your life you'll never get back. This chick needs to go immediately. Like yesterday.
 
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