The Duke
Master Don Juan
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In my line of work, I am often an approached by females looking for commercial buildings to run a business(nail salon, clothing boutique, etc). There is always extensive remodeling(wiring, plumbing, walls, flooring, painting) that needs to be done to suit the individuals business type. It NEVER fails, this is where the female leans on the husband. Many times I've been standing right there with the husband and wife and the woman always looks towards her husband when these topics come up. You can see the stress/anxiety coming over her. And the guy is always like "just what I wanted to do, more schitt I have to get involved in".
Few of these women will actually try to handle the remodel side. Those that do get stressed out and end up turning it over to their husband.
I'm always left wondering, what does that man get out of all this? A woman that keeps her body fine, doesn't act out, and provides enthusiastic sex when he wants? lol, yeah right. I certainly don't see any of that.
All of this commitment to provide for the female just to keep her long term, is it really worth it?
As I've gotten older, I have quit fixing girlfriends' vehicles if it was anything that would require more than 2hrs of my time. If their level of cooking was equal to my level of automotive skills then I might consider.
I just don't see much fairness in male/female long term relationships and marriages. I see women getting better deals than most men.
Few of these women will actually try to handle the remodel side. Those that do get stressed out and end up turning it over to their husband.
I'm always left wondering, what does that man get out of all this? A woman that keeps her body fine, doesn't act out, and provides enthusiastic sex when he wants? lol, yeah right. I certainly don't see any of that.
All of this commitment to provide for the female just to keep her long term, is it really worth it?
As I've gotten older, I have quit fixing girlfriends' vehicles if it was anything that would require more than 2hrs of my time. If their level of cooking was equal to my level of automotive skills then I might consider.
I just don't see much fairness in male/female long term relationships and marriages. I see women getting better deals than most men.