You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Whats your diet look like? How many meals and how much protein are you getting from real food per day?HandyAndy said:Im talking protein twice a day now, right after I workout and what other time would be most effective?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Well i spend most of my day at school, I eat once at nutrition and once at lunch, i get a pretty good amount of protein at those times, i workout afterschool and then take my protein shake.JohnnyIrish said:Whats your diet look like? How many meals and how much protein are you getting from real food per day?
Mon - Upper Horizontal: BB Bench, BB Row, DB Inc Bench, Cable Row, Arm WorkHandyAndy said:I got the protein thing down, instead of making a new topic for a simple question, ill just ask it in here.
What is the best set/rep combination? Im confused on what to do.
Im having some trouble with the workout posted in the "Where to start" post, so what do you think of this one? And tell me what changes are best. Thx..
Monday - Chest/Triceps
Tuesday - Legs
Wednesday - off
Thursday - Shoulders
Friday - Back/Biceps
Saturday - off
Sunday - off
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What's the matter?HandyAndy said:Im having some trouble with the workout posted in the "Where to start" post
I'm a teen too and yeah it's definitely tough to eat 6+ meals a day. Preparing is the only way to go... Once you get a strategy and formula down that works, it makes the job a whole lot easier and the only real challenge after that is discipline and motivation, which you have to find yourself.HandyAndy said:Im a teen, i find it hard to eat 5-6 meals a day, and its harder to actually prepare them, as for the omega 3s, my dad takes fish oil, would it be safe to just pop one of his gel pills? If not, what should I do about it?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Look up some lifting videos on Youtube and try to replicate. Start with just the bar for deadlifts and squats, and get a trainer in the gym to check your form. It's better than nothing. Ask a guy who puts up big weights to give you some pointers on form, thats what I did.HandyAndy said:Well ive never done the deadlift before, i dont know how much i can do, i have horrible squat form, i have upperbody strength and a little lowerbody strength, i can legpress around 340 but my squat is only around 125 which is pathetic.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.