Colin O'Brien
Don Juan
what is the generally accepted (among you folk) way of posing this question?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
proper way to see if a girl wants to be FWB
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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Don Juan
who you calling "you folk"?
The times that I've had a FWB, it's gone like this:
1. We meet through a common social circle
2. We hookup, usually at/after a party or a night out
3. Afterwards, we have the inevitable "talk" about what it meant
4. We both agree that it was fun, but we're not looking for much more
5. Rinse and repeat
It's tough to put into words that kind of proposal before the deed is done at least once, in my opinion.
1. We meet through a common social circle
2. We hookup, usually at/after a party or a night out
3. Afterwards, we have the inevitable "talk" about what it meant
4. We both agree that it was fun, but we're not looking for much more
5. Rinse and repeat
It's tough to put into words that kind of proposal before the deed is done at least once, in my opinion.
I mack a girl...and sleep with her...the next time she comes over, I tell her that I really like her, but not looking for anything serious. Usually they 99.9% of the time will agree and say, "I am not looking for anything serious either". From there on it, it is pretty easy.
Girls tend to prefer sex without all the BS of a relationship.
All I have ever had were lovers or fvck buddies...which sucks...now that I want a GF, I can't get either..HA!!!
Girls tend to prefer sex without all the BS of a relationship.
All I have ever had were lovers or fvck buddies...which sucks...now that I want a GF, I can't get either..HA!!!
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Yes and they love to pretend that that is not the case.... They hate admitting they are a ho, i which keep telling them, is not a bad word.Tantric said:Girls tend to prefer sex without all the BS of a relationship.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.