Colin O'Brien
Don Juan
what is the generally accepted (among you folk) way of posing this question?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
proper way to see if a girl wants to be FWB
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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Don Juan
who you calling "you folk"?
The times that I've had a FWB, it's gone like this:
1. We meet through a common social circle
2. We hookup, usually at/after a party or a night out
3. Afterwards, we have the inevitable "talk" about what it meant
4. We both agree that it was fun, but we're not looking for much more
5. Rinse and repeat
It's tough to put into words that kind of proposal before the deed is done at least once, in my opinion.
1. We meet through a common social circle
2. We hookup, usually at/after a party or a night out
3. Afterwards, we have the inevitable "talk" about what it meant
4. We both agree that it was fun, but we're not looking for much more
5. Rinse and repeat
It's tough to put into words that kind of proposal before the deed is done at least once, in my opinion.
I mack a girl...and sleep with her...the next time she comes over, I tell her that I really like her, but not looking for anything serious. Usually they 99.9% of the time will agree and say, "I am not looking for anything serious either". From there on it, it is pretty easy.
Girls tend to prefer sex without all the BS of a relationship.
All I have ever had were lovers or fvck buddies...which sucks...now that I want a GF, I can't get either..HA!!!
Girls tend to prefer sex without all the BS of a relationship.
All I have ever had were lovers or fvck buddies...which sucks...now that I want a GF, I can't get either..HA!!!
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Yes and they love to pretend that that is not the case.... They hate admitting they are a ho, i which keep telling them, is not a bad word.Tantric said:Girls tend to prefer sex without all the BS of a relationship.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.