THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
the only way u could judge the dude is by seeing him in action, so forget bout how "rich" or "good-looking" he is.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
i second that :woo:snobby said:The guy knows how to have fun and party and has good social skills.
But who cares, I wanna see some boobs.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Congratulations on your accomplishments.Macgyver said:75% of the discussion board are filled with morons who should've stayed in the high school forum. my scientific conclusion comes that i only participate in 25% of the threads (ie. reading) the rest I just skim by cause the titles speak for itself "why is this girl not talking to me" "myspace blah blah blah" "here is my field report with 100 chat lines" if you hear me be whiny in a thread, know that this thread is dead and filled with stupids.
/\/\/\Egoist said:goofy harmless guy appeal.
Bvbidd said:/\/\/\
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
:yes: Especially since they are extremley drunk *****s.Egoist said:but seriously, if you get to know 100 hotties, you will fvck at least like 5 of them, just because you are there..
Bvbidd said:...
Still must suck knowing they will never actually feel any sort of sexual attraction towards you and your just a gimmick. Who the **** would want to be that guy?
Exactly. Also not only may they be friends but they could just be average guys with average girls. If your not gay, all guys are concidered ugly.Tha Realnezz said:I RARLEY see ugly guys with hot hoes.And if you probe or ask the balls to ask...chances are they aren't fawking these women at all,just freinds.
Reality Check,people.