THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
the only way u could judge the dude is by seeing him in action, so forget bout how "rich" or "good-looking" he is.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
i second that :woo:snobby said:The guy knows how to have fun and party and has good social skills.
But who cares, I wanna see some boobs.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Congratulations on your accomplishments.Macgyver said:75% of the discussion board are filled with morons who should've stayed in the high school forum. my scientific conclusion comes that i only participate in 25% of the threads (ie. reading) the rest I just skim by cause the titles speak for itself "why is this girl not talking to me" "myspace blah blah blah" "here is my field report with 100 chat lines" if you hear me be whiny in a thread, know that this thread is dead and filled with stupids.
/\/\/\Egoist said:goofy harmless guy appeal.
Bvbidd said:/\/\/\
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
:yes: Especially since they are extremley drunk *****s.Egoist said:but seriously, if you get to know 100 hotties, you will fvck at least like 5 of them, just because you are there..
Bvbidd said:...
Still must suck knowing they will never actually feel any sort of sexual attraction towards you and your just a gimmick. Who the **** would want to be that guy?
Exactly. Also not only may they be friends but they could just be average guys with average girls. If your not gay, all guys are concidered ugly.Tha Realnezz said:I RARLEY see ugly guys with hot hoes.And if you probe or ask the balls to ask...chances are they aren't fawking these women at all,just freinds.
Reality Check,people.