THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
the only way u could judge the dude is by seeing him in action, so forget bout how "rich" or "good-looking" he is.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
i second that :woo:snobby said:The guy knows how to have fun and party and has good social skills.
But who cares, I wanna see some boobs.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Congratulations on your accomplishments.Macgyver said:75% of the discussion board are filled with morons who should've stayed in the high school forum. my scientific conclusion comes that i only participate in 25% of the threads (ie. reading) the rest I just skim by cause the titles speak for itself "why is this girl not talking to me" "myspace blah blah blah" "here is my field report with 100 chat lines" if you hear me be whiny in a thread, know that this thread is dead and filled with stupids.
/\/\/\Egoist said:goofy harmless guy appeal.
Bvbidd said:/\/\/\
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
:yes: Especially since they are extremley drunk *****s.Egoist said:but seriously, if you get to know 100 hotties, you will fvck at least like 5 of them, just because you are there..
Bvbidd said:...
Still must suck knowing they will never actually feel any sort of sexual attraction towards you and your just a gimmick. Who the **** would want to be that guy?
Exactly. Also not only may they be friends but they could just be average guys with average girls. If your not gay, all guys are concidered ugly.Tha Realnezz said:I RARLEY see ugly guys with hot hoes.And if you probe or ask the balls to ask...chances are they aren't fawking these women at all,just freinds.
Reality Check,people.