THE_ADDMAN
Master Don Juan
the only way u could judge the dude is by seeing him in action, so forget bout how "rich" or "good-looking" he is.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
i second that :woo:snobby said:The guy knows how to have fun and party and has good social skills.
But who cares, I wanna see some boobs.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Congratulations on your accomplishments.Macgyver said:75% of the discussion board are filled with morons who should've stayed in the high school forum. my scientific conclusion comes that i only participate in 25% of the threads (ie. reading) the rest I just skim by cause the titles speak for itself "why is this girl not talking to me" "myspace blah blah blah" "here is my field report with 100 chat lines" if you hear me be whiny in a thread, know that this thread is dead and filled with stupids.
/\/\/\Egoist said:goofy harmless guy appeal.
Bvbidd said:/\/\/\
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
:yes: Especially since they are extremley drunk *****s.Egoist said:but seriously, if you get to know 100 hotties, you will fvck at least like 5 of them, just because you are there..
Bvbidd said:...
Still must suck knowing they will never actually feel any sort of sexual attraction towards you and your just a gimmick. Who the **** would want to be that guy?
Exactly. Also not only may they be friends but they could just be average guys with average girls. If your not gay, all guys are concidered ugly.Tha Realnezz said:I RARLEY see ugly guys with hot hoes.And if you probe or ask the balls to ask...chances are they aren't fawking these women at all,just freinds.
Reality Check,people.